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Author:  TheDude [ Wed May 02, 2012 3:31 am ]
Post subject:  Letting a girl no your NOT interested

Hey NF Men,

How do you let a girl know your not interested?

I began chatting with a girl in a guitar class I'm taking. Wasn't interested in her physically more as a friend. I treated her with respect and we'd thought it was a good idea to carpool to a mandatory guitar performance (haven't yet). She invited me over tomorrow to practice guitar; not interested. She also texted me today after I lost my phone texting me: Cutie*

I'm not interested in anything sexual with this girl. Nice girl all in all just not my type. Message is getting long, but can you teach me on how to let this girl, and some other girls in the future, that I'm not interested in bed time with them... :D

Author:  The Kidd!! [ Wed May 02, 2012 3:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Letting a girl no your NOT interested

The same way they let us know, silly...put her in the friend zone! Duh! :roll:

Author:  TheDude [ Wed May 02, 2012 3:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Letting a girl no your NOT interested

Yes I know that part. Friend zone seems to go down slow and steady.

I am very analytical individual. Should I not respond to her text or respond with something neutral: Got you in my new phone.

Author:  TheDude [ Wed May 02, 2012 4:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Letting a girl no your NOT interested

Nvm on the previous post. That last post of mine reminded me of old times...PUA: "Guys guys!!! Please TELL ME what to do".

I stopped my internal seeking outward mechanism and brought that back inward. I'll handle this my way. If it does go wrongly, well then I learned a new way on how NOT to do it.

Author:  peregrinus [ Wed May 02, 2012 8:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Letting a girl no your NOT interested

You could also do her really badly, so she does not want to spend anymore time with you ;)

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On a more serious note: Think back to when the same situation has happened in reverse, how has it been done to you?

Author:  Slim Titan [ Wed May 02, 2012 11:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Letting a girl no your NOT interested

Just talk with the girl, but always tell her no when it comes to going out or coming over or say that you're busy.

Edit: anyway you put this shit. The girl is still going to like you more for denying her access. SOOOOoooo, you just gotta deal with the shit.

Author:  Azriel [ Thu May 03, 2012 10:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Letting a girl no your NOT interested

I have a girl stalking me for the last four years, ignoring her and telling her I'm no into you that way doesn't work. So thats how not to do it anyway.

Author:  Altair [ Thu May 03, 2012 10:13 pm ]
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Azriel wrote:
I have a girl stalking me for the last four years, ignoring her and telling her I'm no into you that way doesn't work. So thats how not to do it anyway.
Well the attraction is always going to be there words arent going to take it away. Its based on what she has deemed attractive about you so if you figure out what that is and then do the opposite she will draw her own conclusions as to why she is no longer attracted to you :geek:

Author:  Azriel [ Fri May 04, 2012 7:18 pm ]
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She creeps me out I'd rather not talk to her.

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