Natural Freedom

Before I finding this forum when I'd go out I'd approach a few girls here and there, often it was blind. I did not care about rejection, because I figured it was a numbers game. So I would take action.

After finding the forum, reading the material etc., I find that I try to observe eye contact etc. from women. But I focus too much on trying to find girls that will give me looks that it actually is counterproductive. Hurts my vibe of indifference. Also, I've become very anti-social when out and really only talk to friends. So I don't even talk to the girls who give me looks.

Anyone else had this experience? How do you balance the action vs. inaction paradigm? Or just part of the path?

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"Truth is not something that can be truly and deeply understood by having it spoon-fed to you." - Adyashanti

It's a natural part of the fine tuning...noob jitters. You'll be alright.

I have sort of the same problem sometimes...but it's more me being my own worst critic. Like right now I'm a little pudgier than I'd like to be...I'm no where near fat or obese, mind you...but I don't feel 100%. So I've been spending a lot more time at the gym and watching what I eat more.

I'm just hard on myself like that.

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I felt similar at first too coming from PUA stuff and approaching anywhere and everywhere. I felt like I should be doing something + missed the buzz from those cold approaches + feared no women would give signs or approach.

But it's like when Indiana Jones has to step off the cliff with faith to get the holy chalice or whatever it was. You gotta either take the pill or not but if you do, then you gotta fully accept that there will be nights you get nothing (or more likely missed the signs).

Once you catch that first girl eyeing ya or the first one approaches you, and you see how LITTLE you have to do from this point on, your world will be turned inside out and there will be no going back I promise.