So, when I was talking to my psychiatrist this past Tuesday he said her wanted to keep the dialogue about my social life open. Secretly, I think he just wants to hear about me banging girls. I decided to give him a little something to work with for this coming Tuesday.
I went fishing and I hooked a sophomore this past Thursday fresh from Japan. Right now I pulling very hard on the line.
I started thinking and wondered why she had sat next to me when there were tons of other computer stations opened. Since, I have never seen her, until this past Thursday on campus, I decided to strike up a conversation first.
She smiled a lot and looked at me intensely. I figured I'd invite her out for coffee in a neutral space since I don't have a phone and its low compliance. I sent her a confirmation email later in the night with instructions to inform me if she couldn't meet at the prearranged time today.
She showed up 8 minutes late. She was excited, nervous, and a little guarded when we first started talking. She was fairly formal. I cherry picked her and talked about one of values. She dropped the boyfriend line in passing. Thirty minutes have passed.
Since I found out she smoked, I suggested we close our conversation at the coffee shop we met at. I bummed her cigarette since she shared some of dessert with me. She initially directs us to an off the way path. I redirect her so that we are walking to her place to check out some music she has composed.
I wait outside her room in the lounge because I see that it is messy, and it is not a zone I would feel comfortable in. We sit for an hour going through her music, and by this time she is preening herself and licking lips. I think she was just following my pace because I have a habit of licking my lips and showing a little tongue when I speak.
She's comfortable with me getting my hands on her extremities. Since, she is comfortable I feel like continuing our interaction. My time is too valuable to spend the entire day with her so I let her know I'm leaving to get back to my studies.
I invite her to my dorm floor tonight to drink with me and my friends. She seems excited initially; however, she uses the phrase, "I might come over".
In my experience this is a deal breaker with less than a 10% chance of occurring. I'm even being generous with that 10% figure and she did not use language that communicates ambivalence when we she agreed to meet me at the coffee shop.
In fact, her response to confirmation email I sent was very excited. She even put a smiley face emoticon in the email. her exact words were, "It sounds like a plan!
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Please critique my thoughts
My gut feeling is that she doesn't want to seem easy. She definitely likes me. She may have reservations about drinking with me since she doesn't know me well. She may think drinking leads to sex or that drinking with her leads to sex may be a general fact.
I'm genuinely mildly interested in fucking her. I'm probably about near the same interest level as her. I'm far more concerned about her giving me some company when I'm chilling or drinking. She makes for some fun company and is interesting enough that you can talk with her for hours. It's why I had to cut our meeting short because I knew I could talk with her for another 4 hours straight and wind up not accomplishing any of my goals for the day. On a side note, my gut told me that I would leave a little mystique by leaving at the time I did.
