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Insight...please.
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Author:  Altair [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 11:12 am ]
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I'm not really sure where things are going wrong. I have a good job lots of potential, ambition. I dress well, am in awesome shape. Understand people pretty good and have no trouble maintaining relationships with people.

But when it comes to meeting new people outside of my friends I fall apart. I guess, so I have a stone cold wall of emotionlessness toward people I don't know.

I thought it was something to do with me, but maybe its not my ex texted me this yesterday

(we were talking about my competitiveness)

"I'm not saying it's a bad thing because it helps drive you, but at the same time you make people feel vastly inferior in your presence. Which either cause them to internalize it and draw away, or externalize it and challenge you"

She went on to say she doesn't think she's good enough, and she can see other people feel the same way about themselves when they interact with me.

I just don't understand and frankly I'm giving up hope :|
Author:  Resonance [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 12:35 pm ]
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I say fuck them let them think what they want, but then again you're not angry so you might care about something like that.

I will leave this to the others as far as this goes, but the best thing In can probably say is maybe you should soften up on somethings. That might help
Author:  rant [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 4:10 pm ]
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hidden agenda.
Author:  fufe [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 7:33 pm ]
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Are you genuine with people ?
rant wrote:
hidden agenda.
Looks like it
Author:  Altair [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 9:50 pm ]
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You mean I have an agenda? Or she has an agenda.
Author:  rant [ Sat Aug 20, 2011 12:39 am ]
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Morpheus wrote:
You mean I have an agenda? Or she has an agenda.

you, women allways have an agenda.

i think you are to much attached to outcomes or some sort of manipulation.

and stop listening to women advice all your post have women advice as reference, we are men what other advice do you need?
Author:  Sniper [ Sat Aug 20, 2011 2:11 am ]
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rant wrote:
stop listening to women advice
This..

and this:
Quote:
women allways have an agenda.
Author:  Altair [ Sat Aug 20, 2011 5:59 am ]
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That's something I have always struggled with, not listening to women's advice. Sometimes they make valid points, amidst the half truths they give.

Perhaps she was trying to lower me to her level?
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sat Aug 20, 2011 6:17 am ]
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Morpheus wrote:
That's something I have always struggled with, not listening to women's advice. Sometimes they make valid points, amidst the half truths they give.

Perhaps she was trying to lower me to her level?
Exactly...this is not an uncommon tactic.
Author:  Altair [ Sat Aug 20, 2011 9:33 am ]
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Not everyone is malicious though, it's difficult to tell between just assuming the worst in people and when they are being truthful.
Author:  Sniper [ Sat Aug 20, 2011 9:47 am ]
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Morpheus wrote:
Not everyone is malicious though, it's difficult to tell between just assuming the worst in people and when they are being truthful.
It's not about women being malicious, even if she has the best intention in mind, women will never be able to see the world like we do or from our point of view.

My female friends were not trying to fuck me over when they read me the symp guide when I asked them for dating and relationship advise (in the past...)
Author:  Altair [ Sat Aug 20, 2011 12:02 pm ]
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But why?

It's pretty easy to see the consequences of your actions...
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sat Aug 20, 2011 1:15 pm ]
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Morpheus wrote:
But why?

It's pretty easy to see the consequences of your actions...
You are still talking about women, right? :|

Also, I didn't say it was always malicious...sometimes it's not malicious at all...doesn't mean that it still isn't effective and turns the tide to their favor... :geek:
Author:  peregrinus [ Sat Aug 20, 2011 6:57 pm ]
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Morpheus wrote:
That's something I have always struggled with, not listening to women's advice. Sometimes they make valid points, amidst the half truths they give.
This is a trick used in marketing.

Put valid points in, then put the bullshit in there also.

Because of the valid points people lower there defences, so to speak, hence being less cautious about also taking the bullshit in.

It is a very effective tactic.
Author:  Sniper [ Sat Aug 20, 2011 9:23 pm ]
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peregrinus wrote:
Morpheus wrote:
That's something I have always struggled with, not listening to women's advice. Sometimes they make valid points, amidst the half truths they give.
This is a trick used in marketing.

Put valid points in, then put the bullshit in there also.

Because of the valid points people lower there defences, so to speak, hence being less cautious about also taking the bullshit in.

It is a very effective tactic.
Seduction community marketers are masters of this: they put a few valid points Or points that seem valid and cover it up with a lot of bullshit. ;)
and it still sells....
Author:  Star_Above [ Sun Aug 21, 2011 11:47 am ]
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Morpheus wrote:
Not everyone is malicious though, it's difficult to tell between just assuming the worst in people and when they are being truthful.
Everyone is guided by self-intrerst...always!
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