my choice of kit doesn't make the Man U kit less valuable, that's from your point of view. From my point of view, in comparison to Barca's kit, the Man U kit is less valuable. I'll tell you why. Have you ever felt some strong bond between you and someone else? Let's say a family member or a good/best friend. Are they of the same value to you as other people? Is your mother of the same value to you as other women? I'm sure the answer is no.
Yes, limiting choices of other people is not possible, and i don't want to do it anyway. And yes, when a woman has many choices, there is a chance that she might leave me. But again, if there is anything that would keep her no matter what happens, it's not money or kids or anything else, it's the bond she has with me. If this bond is strong enough, no matter how many choices she has, this bond will always make me her best choice.
All right Barca,
I have quoted your entire post above. Due to your mentality, you have not noticed your own inconsistencies. Have a look at this quote for example:
my choice of kit doesn't make the Man U kit less valuable, that's from your point of view. From my point of view, in comparison to Barca's kit, the Man U kit is less valuable.
This doesn't make any sense. I would encourage you to have a rethink about what you are really trying to say. Furthermore, I would encourage you to have a re-think if those ideas you think you have are of your own volition.
Have you ever felt some strong bond between you and someone else? Let's say a family member or a good/best friend. Are they of the same value to you as other people? Is your mother of the same value to you as other women? I'm sure the answer is no.
I'm afraid that you are mistaken. I do not apply value to people's lives. Not only does it extend to human beings, but animals as well.
I would say those were just elementary mistakes. Here's a more complex one:
when a woman has many choices, there is a chance that she might leave me. But again, if there is anything that would keep her no matter what happens....
You openly acknowledge that a woman has a right to leave and yet you are scheming to keep hold of her with your incredible, bulletproof plan.
So what is this dramatic technological evolution that you have managed to figure out that none of us here have done?
It's the bond she has with me.
If this bond is strong enough, no matter how many choices she has, this bond will always make me her best choice.
You have gone from acknowledging that every person has a choice to trapping a woman with 'a strong bond'. And before you deny it, which I suspect you will, you have said it with your own words 'no matter [NO MATTER] how many choices she has, this bond will always [ALWAYS] make me her best choice'. You are basically saying that having a strong bond will contain her from looking elsewhere. Not only is it not true, but the very fact that you believe in and rely on such a bond will make you a bloodthirsty victim for a woman who understands choice. And believe me, they all understand choice. You see, Barca, the strong bond argument doesn't work, because you cannot see it. There is no physical proof that it exists. It is not on paper. If it was made as a verbal promise, then it can just as easily be taken away. If there were witnesses, it's none of their business. This is the very reason why humanity invented marriage. It was designed as a contract that was visible in as many ways as possible to ensure that choice would be visibly diminished. However, not even something written on a legal document could last as choice was and always has been the man's first natural right. It can never be taken away. Not even through religion, the legal system, a political debate or even a 'strong bond'.
This would be something that I call your 'breaking point'. You will understand this as your 'weakness', women understand this as your 'thing'. You know, the whole 'special bond' thing? This will be your thing. Once a woman figures this out, she will use this against you for the primary purpose of driving you insane.
One day you will come home (if you can even make it this far) and she will innocently tell you that she met a guy from work who she gets on with better than anyone. She will then tell you that she has a strong working relationship with him. You will dismiss it at first but after a few days she will tell you that she has a wonderful working bond with this guy. After your interests perk, she will see that she's got your attention and then she will tell you every day about the guy she has a 'strong bond' with. You will ask her if she wants to be with this guy, she will tell you 'No, I didn't mean like that, I mean just work-wise.'
After she leaves you for him, you will be crying on the phone telling her that you thought you had a strong bond with her. To which, not only will she laugh down the phone to you, she will have you on speaker-phone with her friends listening in to the conversation, laughing with her. She will also tell her sisters everything that's going on when they get together for their 'share-everything-about-your-love-life night'.
She will say to her friends, 'I just don't feel anything for him anymore, he keeps saying that we have a 'strong bond' or something - hahahahaha!! Hahahaha!!!"
Cue All laughter: hahahahahahahahahahaha!!!
She will then tell her boyfriend, "I don't know why, he keeps saying that we have a strong bond, do you think that you have a strong bond with me?"
"Course I do baby, I got a really strong bond for ya - come here'
As she fucks him, she will not remember you.
The above story I have made up almost completely. But if you knew the millions of men who have gone through this strife worldwide, you would be stunned. It is this kind of humiliation that makes men have utter contempt for women. It is the reason why this community has been around for so long and is still deep in the depths underground. It is the reason why some of the most experienced men in the realm of dating come to sites like these to give people advice.
They know what it's like. It's not very nice - and you are headed straight in that direction.