didn't get what you mean, Scarf.
All right Barca.
But before I begin, I'd like to point out that I do not believe in indifference. An outcome is not only always desired and preferred by the soul, it would be against it's own nature to deny such a preference. Besides, it's not something that can be applied at will and anyone who does this would only end up pretending to be indifferent, and pretending to be indifferent doesn't actually work. I do however believe in self-bias. Knowing what you prefer and being sure about what you want. It is only through this certainty that you can give off the 'illusion' of indifference. Self-bias is self sustaining, but being bias towards something outside of your control, though common, is damaging in practice. Congratulations on the Champions League win last season. I bet you were very happy with Barcelona winning the title. However, if your entire happiness was dependent on Barcelona winning the Champions League every year, then your happiness would be greatly at risk, wouldn't you agree?
Let's take another one of my favourite examples - designer labels.
Here in the good city of London, designer stores are everywhere you look along with normal department stores. Generally speaking, they tend to sell the exact same thing. In fact, I would venture to say that a good portion of the shirts sold in department stores are of better quality and style than many of the shirts sold in designer stores. I will never forget the day I walked into a designer store and saw a shirt being sold for about £80 - £100. Not only was it the most hideous shirt I'd ever seen, the material wasn't much better than what I had already brought, so what was the major difference then?
...the label.
The label was the single biggest element of difference. it automatically asserted it's right when the sign across it's collar read 'I'm a designer label you know, you want me don't you? I'm better than every shirt you've brought because I have this name written here. Only chosen ones get to do that'.
Or to use your own words Barca, 'Don't forget, I'm not just any shirt, I'm a designer label'.
Don't forget that this is not any girl, she is your girlfriend.
However, an entire global society has fallen prey to this belief. This belief that something is worth more based on it's labeling alone.
The purpose of clothes is to wear them. What you choose to wear is based on preference, likeness, taste, beauty etc. If the clothes don't fit or they don't look so appealing to you, find new ones.
They are just clothes at the end of the day.