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 Post subject: a nice experiment
PostPosted: Tue Jul 05, 2011 6:51 am 
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hey guys,

last night I went to the movies with a lady friend of mine, I was once into her but she was not into me. Still we remain friends because my feelings for her are not that strong And besides I'm much more indifferent now so I don't give a shit if she wants me or not.

anyway, here is the thing.

remember we had that post that the traits women find attractive are:
'confidence and indifference' and I always thought that sense of humor was importent and then you guys told me that it's what the PUA community says but it's not true.

one guy in here mentioned how he got laid without saying anything funny the whole night, someone else pointed out that if a girl likes you then she will find stuff you say as funny- stuff that might not seem funny to another girl.

Anyway, I decided that last night I'm not going to say anything funny on purpose - even if I have some funny stuff in my head in the moment.

Instead I'm just going to be indifferent and confident.

Well the movie we saw was a shit movie 'London Boulevard' there was not many things in that movie that seemed funny to me (I didn't like the movie).
But anyway, funny thing happened:

She laughed many times during the movie at stuff I was saying that were not even funny.
in my head I was like : what is she laughing at? I didn't say anything funny :roll:

a small example: I drank a diet diet coke and the taste of it was weird, not like I'm used to (because I drink diet coke often). So I made this face that I don't like it.
She asked me what happened?

I said: I don't know, this diet coke taste like someone took a piss in it.

Her: :lol:

Me: I'm serious :roll:

Her again: :lol: :lol:

This is just one example there were many other things that I said that were not funny and she goes: :lol:

very intresting.....

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 Post subject: Re: a nice experiment
PostPosted: Tue Jul 05, 2011 5:44 pm 
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 Post subject: Re: a nice experiment
PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2011 8:51 am 
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Sniper wrote:
She laughed many times during the movie at stuff I was saying that were not even funny.
in my head I was like : what is she laughing at? I didn't say anything funny :roll:
Laughing has more social functions, then just something you do when something is funny. Most often it's more something to show you like someone, or mean no harm, or to be submissive to someone, or to break a tention, etc.
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So I made this face that I don't like it.
I said: I don't know, this diet coke taste like someone took a piss in it.
Her: :lol:
Me: I'm serious :roll:
Her again: :lol: :lol:
This was hilarious; :lol: :lol: . Just kiddin, maybe not that hilarious :|

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 Post subject: Re: a nice experiment
PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2011 5:48 pm 
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I noticed that, and that women are very forgiving of personalities if they're attracted to you.
I knew a guy who was very weird he unnerved my entire class its difficult to describe how weird this guy is. Then we met his girlfriend and she was normal!

Its as if something in them makes it so they find the stupidest things you do or say funny.

I find it annoying, here I am working hard to become a good comedian and she laughs at THAT.

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 Post subject: Re: a nice experiment
PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2011 7:13 pm 
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Aztecsfinest wrote:
most women are very forgiving of personalities if they're attracted to you.
:mrgreen:

It's not even so much about that dude, if two people connect then they accept each other, personality querks and all.

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 Post subject: Re: a nice experiment
PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2011 9:17 pm 
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@Aztecsfinest

this reminds me of something. In one of the places where I used to work there was this girl I really wanted. I always made her laugh and there was another dude who was so boring and was not funny.

She ended up going with him not me. Back then I didn't know what I know now....
I was needy as fuck and he was indifferent :cry:

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 Post subject: Re: a nice experiment
PostPosted: Thu Jul 07, 2011 9:54 am 
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Sniper wrote:
someone else pointed out that if a girl likes you then she will find stuff you say as funny- stuff that might not seem funny to another girl.
This is true. Seen it so many times I can't even count that number.


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