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Author:  Alchemist [ Sat May 28, 2011 12:02 am ]
Post subject:  New chapter in my life
With Kidd's personal coaching I've finally developed indifference and met someone, I've known for awhile that she liked me but I always shrugged it off, until recently.

Everything just happened naturally, there was a vibe between us and I just went with it.

How did I know that she's liked me for awhile?
How did I know to trust whatever my gut was saying and tell the truth no matter how ridiculous it may have sounded to me?
How was I finally indifferent to the outcome?

The answer to all these questions is:

The Kidd!!

So what do I think about sex now? it's nice but overrated, despite the fact that I was nervous, I didn't worry much.

Kidd has not only helped me with this area of my life but in the one area that matters: self-actualization, because in the end the only thing that truly matters is our purpose in life and striving to be the best person we can be, for the past few months I've focused on my craft and career path, as a result I've gained the esteem of my peers and gotten better at and more confident with what I do, I've put on muscle and look better than I have in years and I became indifferent to the outcome, in the one moment that I had mixed emotions about growing up.

It's like all the shit I've built up sex to be just disappeared, I didn't even feel it go away, it just went and Kidd was patient and understanding enough to help me all this time, even when I doubted myself and thought "I can never be THAT blunt, that's CRAZY, only Kidd can get away with saying this outrageous stuff", when I fucked up with girls and got burned bad, I pulled myself back up and he was there to help me keep going, it took 2 years but we got there and it's only the beginning, he's literally changed my life for the better in all aspects with his advice and guidance....and we haven't even met in real life, I can only imagine how much of an influence he's had on people in his own life.

Shit man, I've been burned by the social matrix bad, I was defeated and broken, if I can break through this point, anyone can.

Kidd, I can't thank you enough for having faith in me and helping me to end this dark chapter in my life, the solution this whole time was so simple and straightforward: just get on with my life and let things happen.

Anyone still spending money on hypnosis and self-improvement programs, send your $$$ to The Kidd!! the path is not easy but once you start walking it (like I am doing now) it's so worth it, I had to overcome severe and crippling self-doubt and wouldn't have come this far without his help.
Author:  Jared [ Sat May 28, 2011 12:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Losing my virginity
I was going to send you P.M. just yesterday
because I felt a shift in you, (well, I was away
from the forums about 5 weeks, I felt that,
through your posts, of course...)

Something along the lines of "Hey you´re making
great progress blabla..." I´m sure there were at least
few others feeling this way too.

ANd you are absolutely right about the purpose stuff,
man.
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sat May 28, 2011 5:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Losing my virginity
Quote:
Anyone still spending money on hypnosis and self-improvement programs, send your $$$ to The Kidd!! the path is not easy but once you start walking it (like I am doing now) it's so worth it, I had to overcome severe and crippling self-doubt and wouldn't have come this far without his help.
Again...thanks for taking the time and keeping an open mind. You did all the heavy lifting yourself...all I did was point out what needed lifting and no matter how heavy it looked, you did not TRY to lift it...YOU LIFTED IT. :ugeek:

...and while I appreciate the suggestion that everyone sends me their monies (lol!), I would like to reiterate that I do offer Skype sessions at very reasonable rates compared to anyone else you might want to coach with. Just keep that in mind if anyone out there is ready for time proven results. 8-)
Author:  Alchemist [ Sat May 28, 2011 7:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Losing my virginity
Jared wrote:
I was going to send you P.M. just yesterday
because I felt a shift in you, (well, I was away
from the forums about 5 weeks, I felt that,
through your posts, of course...)

Something along the lines of "Hey you´re making
great progress blabla..." I´m sure there were at least
few others feeling this way too.

ANd you are absolutely right about the purpose stuff,
man.
Yeah for sure, living according to my purpose and working hard for myself gives me a deep sense of satisfaction, the results speak for themselves. :mrgreen:
Author:  Dr. Awesome [ Sat May 28, 2011 7:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Losing my virginity
Thats more than great!

I'm really happy for you, Alchemist :) Not that you lost your virginity in particular but that you could end that chapter of desperation in your life.
Author:  Sniper [ Sat May 28, 2011 10:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Losing my virginity
wow that's great man :) I'm really happy for you.

But I'm even more happy that you found this out:
Quote:
So what do I think about sex now? it's nice but overrated
I once mentioned that when I was in the army and still a virgin, some people used made fun of me. Those people used to tell me that sex was the best thing ever. After my first time- I was like: Ok it's fun but not a big deal. Is that what all the hoola was about? :?

my will to become a ladies man after that (with the seduction community) was because of ego and because I was duped by women a few times. It was sort of a rebellion and a want for revenge (it was not because I wanted sex so much).

But if I only knew about The Marquee Value Theory and other things I would have just relaxed and didn't spend so much time and energy :oops:
But hey at least I know now, some men will never know....

Thanks once again Kidd ;)
Author:  peregrinus [ Sat May 28, 2011 10:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Losing my virginity
BRAVO Alchemist.

It is not the destination which holds value, it is the journey :)

Bravo on taking that journey and keeping your mind open enough to listen and digest.
Author:  Alchemist [ Sat May 28, 2011 11:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Losing my virginity
peregrinus wrote:
BRAVO Alchemist.

It is not the destination which holds value, it is the journey :)

Bravo on taking that journey and keeping your mind open enough to listen and digest.
Totally...I have more of an understanding of what you mean now, I also tried the celibacy thing for a month whilst I was purely focused on my work and it strengthened this feeling of indifference I accumulated, so you had a hand to play in this too buddy. :D
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sat May 28, 2011 4:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Losing my virginity
What are you talking about 'tried celibacy'? You were celibate by default! :lol: ;)
Author:  Alchemist [ Sat May 28, 2011 7:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Losing my virginity
The Kidd!! wrote:
What are you talking about 'tried celibacy'? You were celibate by default! :lol: ;)
True, I meant not jerkin the gherkin. :p
Author:  Alchemist [ Sat Sep 18, 2021 7:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: New chapter in my life
10 years later, I'm polyamorous and I take time to myself when the crazy brings too much chaos to my life.

Tell you what....The Kidd!! had a handful to work with, to put it lightly, but he persevered in facilitating the space for the mindset I have now.

If my past self of 10 years ago could see me now his mind would be blown to the stratosphere. :lol:

And The Kidd!! would probably be sitting back with a knowing smile that says 'of course, never doubt me'. 8-)
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Mon Sep 20, 2021 3:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: New chapter in my life
Alchemist wrote: *Sat Sep 18, 2021 7:26 am
10 years later, I'm polyamorous and I take time to myself when the crazy brings too much chaos to my life.

Tell you what....The Kidd!! had a handful to work with, to put it lightly, but he persevered in facilitating the space for the mindset I have now.

If my past self of 10 years ago could see me now his mind would be blown to the stratosphere. :lol:

And The Kidd!! would probably be sitting back with a knowing smile that says 'of course, never doubt me'. 8-)
It was an honor and privilege to play such a pivotal role in your growth and transformation. I knew you had it in you or I wouldn’t have even bothered.

One of my greatest success stories … and also who I consider to be a good friend ☺️
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