edit: when a girl has not talked to you for a long time and then one day she calls you and says 'she missed you'- there is usually some hidden agenda. don't fall for that shit..

Something else would have motivated me to go though;
more social contacts.

I don't think I need social contacts from her. I'll find social contacts someplace else without having to bring a fat cheque

Hey guys here is a short story some of you might know this or had this happen to them

So I had this female friend let's call her Laura, she has not been in touch with me for about a year and a half (and we used to be friends). So I guess at some point she didn't care about me that much...
I deleted her phone number and deleted her from facebook.

Today I get a call (after a year and a half):

Her: Hey Sniper how are you? we have not talked in ages we need to meet, I missed you...

Me: who is this?

Her: it's Laura, what you forgot about me?

Me: yes I guess so... I have not heard from you for about a year and a half.

Her: that is so rude, what's wrong with you? I was very very busy.

Me: Ok whatever

Her: listen we need to meet I have something importent to tell you.

Me: actually I'm very busy at the moment and I don't think I'll have time, so what is it?
(I no longer have any motivation in what's so ever to meet her)

Her: Ok, I'm getting married in two months!!!

Me: congratulations

Her: I really want you to be at my wedding and I'm making the guest list. The wedding is at XX (date). Are you coming?

Me: nope

Her: wow that's really harsh

Me: Look I have not heard from you for a year and a half so obviously our friendship don't matter to you. So I lost intrest in you And I'm not going to be a cheque...
('being a cheque' is when someone does not care about you but only invites you to his wedding so he can get another guest- that's because each guest brings money and so the more guests he has - the more money he has to cover the event- that's how weddings parties are in my country)

Her: in that case have a nice life

Me: I'm already having a great life esp. after I stopped talking to you
(and then I hang up the phone)

silly bitch, she thinks I'm going to be one of those suckers -a cheque for her wedding party.

edit: when a girl has not talked to you for a long time and then one day she calls you and says 'she missed you'- there is usually some hidden agenda. don't fall for that shit..

If you get mad at a chick (When you told her you're not a cheque) they know they've gotten to you. In most cases if a girl is being a douche then being aloof and acting like she doesn't matter is the plan...but don't get mad, because then they know they have you. gets to them more than telling them to fuck off.

I liked the way you handled it in this circumstances, Sniper.
People can say anything they want about you, but not that you're an hypocrite like 90% of the people. To add, I disagree with this.
Because. Since he doesn't care about her, nor any other aspect related to her. Why would you then even go as far as considering how she may think things like: "I know I've gotten to him". Her opinion/thoughts are total irrelevant now, then why even spend 1 second to think about that or take it into consideration?Or even taking 1 second to consider, what to do so "to get to them" more?
Every second done that, is a second wasted in a circumstance like this. imo.

I liked the way you handled it in this circumstances, Sniper.
People can say anything they want about you, but not that you're an hypocrite like 90% of the people. To add, I disagree with this.
Because. Since he doesn't care about her, nor any other aspect related to her. Why would you then even go as far as considering how she may think things like: "I know I've gotten to him". Her opinion/thoughts are total irrelevant now, then why even spend 1 second to think about that or take it into consideration?Or even taking 1 second to consider, what to do so "to get to her" more?
Every second done that, is a second wasted in a circumstance like this. imo.

I have not heard from you for a year and a half so obviously our friendship don't matter to you. So I lost intrest in you And I'm not going to be a cheque...

What you have forgotten is that you are a bright, attractive, creative and resourceful individual. You, at your fullest potential, can run a nation, a business empire and even.... your own life. This is the reason why you will never ever need a woman. This is the reason why if a woman doesn't call you for a year and a half, you are not likely to care. You're too busy tending to the fantasia that is your life.