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| Author: | fufe [ Thu May 19, 2011 3:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Dramatic change in perception |
I just want to ask if the following is OK and normal progress. Lately I've been attracted to no girls, at all - When I meet girls on street or I talk to them, I don't feel any nervousness, fear, nothing.. Sex is the least thing I'm thinking about. Not I don't like them around, I just don't want them, don't need them I suppose.. The thing is I didn't feel attracted to anybody new for more than month now. I feel quite weird, when I'm out with guy friends and they are talking about girls' tits'n'asses as they are walking by and I don't get it. Is it only because they are sympin' ? You see, I know what I like, they are certain "types" of faces that attract me (I've been able to figure out thanks to countless hours of face studying for my drawing), but it looks I don't meet those very often. But I stumbled upon a thought, that you guys may be thinking something else about this - That I may be putting them (again) on pedestal. To me it is normal, just recognizing consciously what attracts me, nothing else. But I want to be sure, I need a look from another angle from you guys, because your advice is the most relevant I can get. So I got 2 questions... Thanks for replies |
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| Author: | rant [ Thu May 19, 2011 5:56 pm ] | |
| Post subject: | Re: Dramatic change in perception | |
I feel quite weird, when I'm out with guy friends and they are talking about girls' tits'n'asses as they are walking by and I don't get it. Is it only because they are sympin' ?
you are doing the same with certain "types" of faces, i think that you still have an idealized view of women
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| Author: | The Kidd!! [ Thu May 19, 2011 5:58 pm ] | ||
| Post subject: | Re: Dramatic change in perception | ||
I feel quite weird, when I'm out with guy friends and they are talking about girls' tits'n'asses as they are walking by and I don't get it. Is it only because they are sympin' ?
you are doing the same with certain "types" of faces, i think that you still have an idealized view of women
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| Author: | fufe [ Thu May 19, 2011 8:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dramatic change in perception |
Oh. Not saying you are not right, but I see every guy doing it unsconsciously - Choosing the same looking types of girls over and over again. So I don't know what now. If I disregard this, I will be attracted to nobody 
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| Author: | peregrinus [ Thu May 19, 2011 8:19 pm ] | |
| Post subject: | Re: Dramatic change in perception | |
So I don't know what now. If I disregard this, I will be attracted to nobody
FORGET WHO YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO!Instead SEE WHO IS ATTRACTED TO YOU! |
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| Author: | fufe [ Thu May 19, 2011 9:56 pm ] | ||
| Post subject: | Re: Dramatic change in perception | ||
So I don't know what now. If I disregard this, I will be attracted to nobody
FORGET WHO YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO!Instead SEE WHO IS ATTRACTED TO YOU! |
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| Author: | The Kidd!! [ Thu May 19, 2011 9:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dramatic change in perception |
Good. 
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| Author: | Resonance [ Fri May 20, 2011 2:57 am ] | ||
| Post subject: | Re: Dramatic change in perception | ||
So I don't know what now. If I disregard this, I will be attracted to nobody
FORGET WHO YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO!Instead SEE WHO IS ATTRACTED TO YOU! That might be difficult  , just tonight before I left my job a lot of attractive Au Pairs came through all I could do for a second was ogle them.But then I remembered not too see what I was attracted but what was attracted to me so still haven't really gotten over the amazing bodies of women just yet, all I do know is that I don't care as much about getting attention from them like before, but I still have work to do I want to upgrade my observation skills 
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| Author: | rant [ Fri May 20, 2011 5:44 pm ] | |||
| Post subject: | Re: Dramatic change in perception | |||
So I don't know what now. If I disregard this, I will be attracted to nobody
FORGET WHO YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO!Instead SEE WHO IS ATTRACTED TO YOU! That might be difficult , just tonight before I left my job a lot of attractive Au Pairs came through all I could do for a second was ogle them.But then I remembered not too see what I was attracted but what was attracted to me so still haven't really gotten over the amazing bodies of women just yet, all I do know is that I don't care as much about getting attention from them like before, but I still have work to do I want to upgrade my observation skills it woud be more easy,if instead of ignoring the girl , you let your body feel that attraction, with no action as peregrinus says(not that you stare at her), if not then you are just resisting,that's like changing a rule not the mindset, and you won't see the girls that are atracted to you, |
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