Her: idk if youre fucking with me or youre actually somewhat interested
Her: ive been pretty sexually frustrated lately.
Her: i am serious about being down for fun...i make it pretty obvious id say
Her: then come over
(10 min goes by)
Her: guess that means no
Her: i could through in a massage if that will persuade you...
Her: i have some kahlua and some vodka and about like 6 beers...and i could make it a good massage....
I didn't want to stay long. When I got to her house it was already almost 1am. We had some drinks and just talked for a while. Too be honest I really wasn't feeling it and kinda wanted to go.
We went back inside the house and she gave me the best blowjob I ever had. I mean she blew me like she was a pornstar. It was great.
When we were making out she was on top of me and she says "I usually don't do this but since your not asking me to I'm gonna do it", that's when she started giving me head.
She reached out and then you gave her space. She then took full advantage of that space.
As with everything, not all space, some action called for, with lots of space.
she gave me the best blowjob I ever had. I mean she blew me like she was a pornstar.
she WANTED to blow you.
YOU set up the conditions for this, by your earlier actions.. By that point she already knew you would let her do it and be able to enjoy it and do it her way.
There were tests all the way along and you passed them without thinking about them. So you did not really see them as tests.. (Something guys on here talk a lot about)
You were not pushing for sex, she wanted to do it and you gave her the space to do it, while enjoying it.
How many times do you think she gets to do that, without the guy jumping all over her? without the guy thinking about something else, or trying to lead into something else. I.E. Sex
She knew what she wanted, made her choice and you confirmed her choice by your actions.
And the Kicker is... She said she gave good head and from your comments above, she was telling the truth.