I dealt with it A LOT when I was first really starting to make progress. Scarf's answer makes the most sense to me.
I rarely deal with aggression from guys, I freely give respect until I have a reason not too. And with obvious exceptions really don't care what they think.
This flashy lightsabering wont yield immediate results anyways. So let it go and blend like Altair until the timing is right.
Yeah I can definetly see that now. For the past few days I've been noticing when I have that gut reaction of aggression and by noticing it more and more its decreasing. I am a fan of the just allow it program that I read about from here. The great thing about a forum like this is that I get told what my potential blind spots are. So basically scarf was right:)