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Author: | Sniper [ Sun Aug 01, 2010 2:24 am ] |
Post subject: | Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha male |
Most of us already know this but for new guys that are coming in I need to emphasize this since it is so important.... This concept was named 'relational mastery' by Rion, but the name does not matter.... what you have to do is: Get off all the programs that tell you women are above you and that you are a loser. That means: no more wussy songs, wussy movies, MTV music videos, wussy TV shows (where the women are the prize and the man is the loser who needs to work hard to get them or please them). These things affect your subconscience mind whether you realize it or not.... I always mute the commercials on TV too cause most of them are about men being wussies or trying to convince me to buy stuff I don't need. Getting off porn is also important though not easy. I sometimes fall into it once in a while but not often (like I used too...) also check out this post regarding this subject: http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopic.php?f=7&t=403 |
Author: | Altair [ Sun Aug 01, 2010 7:23 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha mal |
So, your saying that negative programming weighs us down and stops us, for that to be true then the inverse would also have to be true. Positive programming alone would have to be enough to make us successful..right? |
Author: | TheModernLibertine [ Sun Aug 01, 2010 8:37 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha mal |
You're being programmed with something at all times. Everyone has an inner voice. The idea is to lessen the extent of the programming by others and to maximize the positive programming you give yourself. |
Author: | Sniper [ Sun Aug 01, 2010 8:37 pm ] | |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha mal | |
So, your saying that negative programming weighs us down and stops us, for that to be true then the inverse would also have to be true. Positive programming alone would have to be enough to make us successful..right?
Yes, however I see Positive programming as more than watching the right TV shows, listening to alpha state music or watching videos of natural alpha models. The way I see it, 'Positive programming' is to also know your strength as a man And understand the relational dynamics in your own culture\country. let me explain by an example: I know a guy who was always a ladies man and he does not know anything about seduction community. He is not that great looking, smart or rich so it's not his 'external' value. the reason he was successful is because he grew up with 4 sisters and was in good relationship with them (so he knew about the real nature of women because of that- I suppose). His father was a ladies man and told him a lot of stories on how he used to shag women and how he did it And his father always told him that he is a sexy mother fucker and that he deserves to shag many women (since his father told him that so many times from a young age- this belief became a part of who he is). His father also taught him 'inner game' stuff like: don't put women on a pedestal and not to chase or court them..... So getting off the negative programing is only the first step, the next step would be to have a strong inner game or natural game (whatever you want to call it, it does not matter). Strong inner\natural game is what people like The Kidd, Corry Sky and David X are teaching. Some would say Zan also teaches it but I think Zan's teachings (although some of it is good) have lack of practical advise on how to change from the inside. If one does not beleive he deserves beautiful women, does not know how to read subtle signs or puts women on a pedestal- he can smile and wink his whole life just to see very little to No results.... |
Author: | Altair [ Sun Aug 01, 2010 11:40 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha mal |
Yes, but positive programming never helped me..its helped increase my confidence and social skills yes..but I've noticed more of the effects on myself since I stopped all that stuff. I have some issues to work on yes but I dont think that inner work is gonna help me move beyond that in the slightest. It's served its purpose like all the searching that Neo did before finding the red pill..but when he found it he did need to rely on it anymore. Awareness is what we need, and once we can see the problem which is thinking that we are the problem there is no need for it anymore, external "helpful programming" is the thing holding us back because it relies on the premise that we are the problem to begin with. Its coming from the wrong frame of reality. The real problem is handing over your balls, and once you've realized that then you take them back, it's really that simple. Not to mention as Create said you'll never get away from societal programming its everywhere you spend much more time with society programming then you could ever on positive work unless you lived in isolation lol |
Author: | Sniper [ Mon Aug 02, 2010 12:03 am ] | |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha mal | |
Yes, but positive programming never helped me..its helped increase my confidence and social skills yes..but I've noticed more of the effects on myself since I stopped all that stuff. I have some issues to work on yes but I dont think that inner work is gonna help me move beyond that in the slightest. It's served its purpose like all the searching that Neo did before finding the red pill..but when he found it he did need to rely on it anymore. Awareness is what we need, and once we can see the problem which is thinking that we are the problem there is no need for it anymore, external "helpful programming" is the thing holding us back because it relies on the premise that we are the problem to begin with. Its coming from the wrong frame of reality.
Well, I see what you are saying so let me elaborate a bit.The real problem is handing over your balls, and once you've realized that then you take them back, it's really that simple. Not to mention as Create said you'll never get away from societal programming its everywhere you spend much more time with society programming then you could ever on positive work unless you lived in isolation lol I don't use affirmations as a 'Band-Aid' they are a supplement to inner core work (by inner core work I mean taking out stuff from the root). I also don't use affirmations such as: all women want me (something I know is not true, even though it's me ) I use affirmations that target the area that I feel I need to work on And only after I went to the root of the problem (Sedona method helps me with that). Now I know the social matrix is everywhere however, 5 days ago I have found something that gives me the bulletproof shield. I'm still testing it so I don't post about yet until I'm 100% sure that the results are permanent. But soon I'll know and if it continues to work well I'll post about it |
Author: | Altair [ Mon Aug 02, 2010 12:18 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha mal |
I'm interested even if it turns out that it doesn't work |
Author: | Azriel [ Thu Aug 26, 2010 3:00 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha mal |
I can get sex any time I want. All I need is about €50, risk STDs and AIDS but at least I finally get my blowjob. TWO F*CKIN' YEARS!!! Where's The Kidd, what am I doing wrong?! Is it aim or something? Although Ocular Sex does sound good... |
Author: | Jared [ Wed Oct 06, 2010 8:36 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha mal |
You are most likely doing great at something, aztecs, but are you working on the right Limiting Belief when it comes to BlowJobs? The thing I´ve noticed is, day after I´ve been with a woman, the next day, more women want to approach me. Reality tries to permanently shift, you see more and more evidence and soon your Beliefs will become Knowledge, and you just start living it. The next time you see evidence, make yourself really comfortable with it. Try to get into a comfort zone of really being with these beautiful women upfront and it will become your Reality. You can make the choice to live your Life with ease. Women come really easily, I MEAN REALLY EASILY AND MERRILY TO YOU, not through some struggle. Ease up man! Not because of sex, but because of you and her, which is a better reason. |
Author: | Alchemist [ Thu Nov 25, 2010 4:08 pm ] | |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha mal | |
I can get sex any time I want. All I need is about €50, risk STDs and AIDS but at least I finally get my blowjob.
What happened to you exactly Aztech to get like this? do you know?
TWO F*CKIN' YEARS!!! Where's The Kidd, what am I doing wrong?! Is it aim or something? Although Ocular Sex does sound good... |
Author: | peregrinus [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 9:16 pm ] | |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha mal | |
The thing I´ve noticed is, day after I´ve been with a woman,
This is because for that time it no longer matters.the next day, more women want to approach me. You are not chasing or thinking of chasing as you are sated. Together with the fact that they can SMELL it on you, it oozes out of you. |
Author: | Jared [ Tue Nov 30, 2010 5:57 am ] | ||
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha mal | ||
The thing I´ve noticed is, day after I´ve been with a woman,
This is because for that time it no longer matters.the next day, more women want to approach me. You are not chasing or thinking of chasing as you are sated. Together with the fact that they can SMELL it on you, it oozes out of you. does, he will end up doing more of it. Think of successful/unsuccessful people in overall, successful people can go broke, but soon they make another fortune. And an unsuccessful people stay unsuccessful unless they do something about it. (grow in awareness, like the successful people did.) Laws of Habit will take care of your success. |
Author: | Cheeky_James [ Sat Sep 30, 2023 5:22 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha male |
This maybe a necro post’ forgive me. Imo this is all very true and correct by OP Gotta get them off the pedestal 100% yes.., BUT imo still be a ‘realist’ ( a bit black pill I guess) There are leagues/tiers in everything in life. Fact and reality. Guys are still limited to playing in their league or tier mostly. If I’m a 7/10 (conditional) I play in my tier and tiers below (easy) I can stretch up to play in the ‘8’ tier for sure. But conditional. Not consistently. The tiers 9s & 10s ? Nope. different tier… odds are very stacked against me. Btw as for chicks ‘smelling it’. I’m literal about that idea. They actually smell it imo. Pheromones(?). I try not to wash off the sex stink, if I can help it. TL:DR - there are tiers that can’t be ignored ,that risks delusional thinking. And Chicks actually smell another chick off a guy. |
Author: | Jared [ Sat Sep 30, 2023 7:24 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha male |
Blackpiller eh? Well, Naturals and Chads get a free pass, the difference is, I don't have to lie to women to give them what THEY want, ME, although I rarely give out my number. I don't always feel like it. Life flows on its own, without me forcing it to flow. Sometimes it's a long dry spell, months and months, so what? Women have approached me everywhere, including a dimly lit parking lot at 4am. LoL no way, red flag, now, she had no boundaries, I had to give them to her. Short chat / About them smelly bits, my brother cheated on his wife all throughout their marriage and she had no clue. He is dating a 22y fitness girl now, he 45. Social Status? Hell no. But they're a fitting pair as he is her type, benches 180 kg easy. (~400 lbs) ........................................................................................................... The point; it is what it is, let it go. Keep the main thing the main thing I think it was Zan Perrion that said "What exists because of you?" That thing. Your thing. The practical; If you're able to 'play' 7s but not 9s and 10s, it is because you start behaving differently at some level, because of your BELIEFS. Look into it, if you will Related post / thread http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=4576 |
Author: | Cheeky_James [ Sat Sep 30, 2023 1:43 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha male |
Blackpiller eh? Well,
No not a blackpiller..just a Gen X tryna drop in the new kids lingo there Naturals and Chads get a free pass, the difference is, I don't have to lie to women to give them what THEY want I reckon pure Black Pill is just a cop out for doing the work. Its a cope. Imo Naturals and 'Chads' get a free pass because of their Looks and/or added Value factors. They dont have to lie to women? its all coming on a plate for them.Tbh I've never known a Natural who doesn't have high Looks / X Factor Looks
The point; it is what it is, let it go. Keep the main thing the main thing
I'd have to disagree there re the Beliefs ideas. I think it was Zan Perrion that said "What exists because of you?" That thing. Your thing. The practical; If you're able to 'play' 7s but not 9s and 10s, it is because you start behaving differently at some level, because of your BELIEFS. Look into it, if you will A guy's Looks determines the base Tier/ League he plays in imo. Say for ex a 5/10 Looks guy. Now 'Mr 5' can have all the best beliefs in the world ...but he's not gonna get 8s-10s. Unless he has serious added Value of Money & Status imo. Then hot 8-9 golddiggers maybe, that bang Chad on the side. I don't rate ZP. A 9-10 Looks guy (or was) who learned SS/Romantic talk. Hes a bit like Brent Smith , a 9-10 Looks also but his viewpoint is more solid to me. Not his teaching method tho. Taking on ZP or BS beliefs wont bring their 9-10 tier level chicks. Unfortunately. Re your brother and his (ex?)wife -I would just say " Love is Blind". Must affect their sense of smell |
Author: | Jared [ Sat Sep 30, 2023 2:46 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha male |
On the other hand, if a man is all about looks and no insight to female behavior (no game) he's really at a disadvantage. Just because the Chad has all the status and moolah, she doesn't necessarily benefit from them at all if all he wants to do is fuck. |
Author: | Cheeky_James [ Sat Sep 30, 2023 4:12 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Here is the first thing you Must do, to become Alpha male |
Confused.. This “if a man is all about looks" - do u mean like, a 7 a guy , B'Pilled & only focused on ‘Looksmaxxing’ as his only strategy? Then I agree yes he's at a disadvantage. Esp in LTRs but also in getting ONS. Working on both is necessary imo. Re Chad - Maybe all she wants to do is fuck also? Don’t understand. I was talking about a Mr 5 with bags of cash and status maybe getting up the tiers a bit (maybe).. |
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