Natural Freedom

for the (secret) porn lovers. too much porn is never a good thing , no seriously . I was led to make this post after reading threads by Profectus. in 2007, I experienced similar but not as severe symptoms. bottom line, jerking off to videos constantly deteriorates stimuli to real sexual experiences/encounters.. The following links provide more information on the topic.

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ed-still ... -over-year

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/cup ... ysfunction

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

Prodigy, what's up buddy?

I haven't read the links you posted yet, but I wanted to let you know that I experienced this too a number of years ago. The solution for me was not to ban myself from watching it altogether, but to restrict myself to only imagining real live women who I have seen in person (even if only at the mall, on the street, etc.) while beating off. However, that's just me; we all have different issues, etc.

Interestingly, I found that if I beat off while imagining the woman to be in such a state of ecstasy as to be almost in agony, I could orgasm twice, maybe three times.

Now only a few rare porn scenes really arouse me, but they now arouse me way more than the stuff I used to like before.

A very interesting read is "My Secret Garden" by Nancy Friday (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/My_Secret_Garden), although i've only read the first half so far. It seems some women have sexual fantasies way freakier than what we see in porn . I much prefer this book to porn. Whenever I have jacked off while remembering one of the passages that struck a note with me (not all of them do, that's for sure!), the results have been glorious.

I know, i'm a sick puppy. But adorable nonetheless .

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"I will not grow in the light, until I pass through the darkest caverns of my heart..."

"Temet Nosce"

I can relate to that - had same problems two years ago. I did exactly what you did and everything went back to normal. I guess porn stops you from using your imagination.

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Laying on the floor in a pool of blood and cum
My demons lay beside as I kiss them one by one
Then on that day I met a force that nothing will compare
I was born the son of evil when I fuck the devil there!