Sniper, are you making fun of my opinion about bonds?
I'm not making fun of you or your opinion, I'm making fun of the term.
as Alchemist & I talked about in another thread:
basically a woman has a multitude of reasons why she chooses someone, she groups all those reasons into one and labels it as "love", "bond" or "connection". And those reasons of course is the amount of value she sees he has.
one day you will realize that 'bonds' exsist only in movies.
i agree with the first part, but i think sometimes the value exchanged between two sides can be very satisfying to both, which results in both sides having a very good relationship with each other, a relationship that can't be broken just like that (ofcourse, and as i always mentioned, if both sides are
serious about the relationship).
As for the second part, i will suppose that bonds exist in movies only (although there is nothing that proves this). With bonds not existing in our reality, what is your idea of a relationship then? You meet some girl, you think she's nice, you have a relationship with each other, a relationship where you don't think she's special or that she suits you, she's just a girl just like any other. After sometime one of you dumps the other for someone else with higher value. Relationship ends, and the circle goes on with other girls. Is this what a relationship looks like to you?