Natural Freedom

Thought I create a thread for this book, like that of Polygamous Sex (http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =22&t=2187) for clarification and questions we have.
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Here are my notes so far...
^I knew of this, but never really read it anywhere. Woman have a great influence on how things are run in the world. The pussy has many followers . It seems the drive of life is taught to us to be bounded to the angels slash the woman.

I heard this a lot when I was growing up:

Get a good education. Find a good job. Get a good wife.

It seems like what was being passed down to me was that getting a wife or woman is the pinnacle of life. As if all of your success or work is to show off to a woman who then GIVES you the acceptance you seemingly can't get from yourself. I understand producing off spring is important; only to pass on your genes...is this the ego?

I can't recall a certain moment where someone told me to live life how I want to live, and learn along the way! I could be wrong. Let me know what you think.

^Are these woman self-centered or interested in bettering themselves?
^Become ego-less? Do our ego's add unnecessary weight to our travels?
^This was a big insight for me. Woman size up one another. So, are we trophies that they put up on the wall? The funny thing is if that is true some men do the same: trophy wife's.
^This is one I'm still looking into.

http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... ale#p15938

http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... ale#p17688

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

the wife is the trophy or the goal. It's like growing up we are told that we are not important enough...
I'm not sure what you mean by 'ego'.
yea but most men who are looking for the 'trophy wife' it comes from the mindset of:
I want to take care of someone (nurturing instinct, remember)?
while the predatory female does not care about making the Man happy- the predatory female just wants to make her life better (gold diggers are perfect example for that)

as for more insights and answers, I shall call the more experienced guys (Kidd and Grinus)

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

These aren't even questions...they are more like typed 'Will someone please co-sign on my interpretations...PLEASE?' statements. Not my arena.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

I see. So, why don't you give me more insight on how this is 'co-sign' my interpretation? But, I'm going to guess your either going to say 'find out for yourself' or not respond

about this:

in a way: Yes...

but in general: it's a more dominant trait in a woman than in Men.

Esther talks about it in her second book or her first one (I don't remember which one...)

Women say they 'love children' but most women are not willing to adopt children who don't have a home and a good life waiting for them (like in Africa, Cambodia and other places...)

Men (generally speaking of course) can love a child like it was their own even if they didn't produce it.

when you think about it:

a family can have three kids and most families can produce two and have another one adopted.
yet, most families are not doing it: they produce all three kids by themselves Or just have two kids (which they produce) so they have more money to buy stuff (often stuff they don't really need...)

a family who is living in modesty can have three-four kids and still live a good life-
that's how it used to be in the 50's and 60's

until people became greedy and wanted to buy more stuff - and thus:
they produce less children to keep a high level lifestyle

notice that I'm talking about families who have average income and above not poor families.

Also, I don't often see rich families make more than three kids these days which is kind of odd

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

It is far from funny. Far far...

"Look what I caught and managed to land"

It is no different from comparing their clothes or jewellery.

It may be power, status, money or another attribute which he has to offer.. She is showing off her latest acquisition.. Like a fisherman they are comparing their fish, who has bigger or better wins.

Does the fisherman care for the fish? or will he throw it back without a second thought if a bigger/nicer/tastier one comes along...

And yes, you are a trophy, now you have to work out why and how...

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

in regards to what Grinus said, maybe you remember from 'the manipulated man':
edit: I heard of CEOs who married their secretary because she was attractive.

Nicolas Cage (the actor) married Alice Kim - an attractive waitress. She didn't win him over by her 'social status or career value'...

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Before this place and a wider perception I was eager to put some extra muscles on me for the ladies. Now, I could care less. Girls will desire my frame and my sexy hair on my chest .

@Sniper

Divorce rates are much higher than the 50's and 60's that is another factor to the limited children in a household. Plus, back then most all of the mainstream norm was 'a happy household w/ 2 or 3 kids'. It seems like now the mainstream norm now is a tad different...'little 16yr old stars with their chacha's out for teens to see'



For a guy I understand though, as in Nicolas Cage (he doesn't seem to be the brightest guy either with his money troubles), where drawn to looks at first, then we look for other attributes (personality, $$$, whatver). The guys here with more exp have said, I remember Kidd saying it, but don't know who else, they shag now and look for more than just a good looking girl. That cracks me up & awesome!