Natural Freedom

I'm done with bitches, for whatever reason....rejection, you just had a string of bad ones etc? I know I have and I think we all do, how did you deal?

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

Time helped me.

I just didn't allow myself to make all women responsible for the sins of a few...

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

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I took time away from Women.

WITHOUT ATTACHING ANY BLAME TO WOMEN <- This is key, key

I chose to spend time without attachment to women, doing things I wanted to do, going places I wanted to go.

I spoke to them, when I came across them or they came across me.

They were not my focus. I gave them very little thought during that time, quite purposefully. Not resisting any thoughts and not dwelling on any when they came up.

It was NOT because I thought they were bitches or bad or was angry at them. It was because I felt I needed to do it FOR ME!

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Blaming them, being angry at them, resisting them, fighting your thoughts <- all these things happen but they do you no good.
Yes, some are bad, some men are bad.. As Kidd said do not blame the many for the sins of the few.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

I don't know if this will help but I'll give my two cents here:

Yes some women are bitches just like some men are assholes. But as David X said:
there are more women in this world than Men. And they never stop making women

since a man only gets better with age while women lose their stocks when they hit their 30's
why give a shit?

In the End men have more options than women.

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

This is one of the most important lessons I've learned from you and one of the hardest to put in to practice.

Everytime this happened I used to go through a major depression and drink, for the last one Kidd helped me realize the reality of the situation that I'm not the one who fucked up, so I got over some of my anger and came to a resolve to never let any woman drive me to that point, ever.

I was nursing a hangover with pub breakfast a few weeks ago when this dude on the next couch had a drink in hand, he said something about drinking early in the morning and I was like "are you alright dude?" and he said something like "this is what happens when you argue with a woman", I didn't get into it with him but I just though no argument can be that bad, this gave me some perspective of how I've let this shit get to me too easily.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

i think that being free of the so called "social matrix" is to learn to accept it and even loving it the way it is, we can change it with our prescence, being alert of those fellings from the past without beating ourselves for having them