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Author:  Sniper [ Thu Feb 17, 2011 2:30 pm ]
Post subject:  becoming your own best friend

Hey Kidd,

so you have talked about this and I think peregrinus also mentioned it (I just don't remember where...).

So it boils down to:

-doing the things you love (hobbies)
-spending time alone with yourself and\or spending time in nature
-building yourself in all areas of life (Front and Clout)
-tapping into your Subconscious mind

anything else specific you are doing to achieve that (becoming your own best friend)?

Author:  The Kidd!! [ Thu Feb 17, 2011 3:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: becoming your own best friend

To achieve what? Digging into my subconscious?

Brother 'Grinus already covered that base...no need for redundancy. 8-)

Author:  Sniper [ Thu Feb 17, 2011 6:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: becoming your own best friend

no I was asking more on what you meant by becoming your own best friend...

Author:  The Kidd!! [ Thu Feb 17, 2011 6:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: becoming your own best friend

You basically become dependent on yourself for emotional support...you are no longer needy, or attention/approval seeking because you yourself is all the approval you need. There is a difference between liking/appreciating human interaction and NEEDING it...I no longer NEED it because I've gotten used to being my own best friend. 8-)

Once you get to this point, you will no longer ACT like you don't give a fuck...because you truly WON'T. That's when life becomes VERY interesting inDEED. 8-)

Author:  rant [ Thu Feb 17, 2011 7:17 pm ]
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sometimes i feel like this guy vincent in the movie collateral(just the attitude i'm not a psycho), it sounds cold but most of the things we have taken for granted like firendship or love are just social constructs,they say we need it becasue it what makes us humans or whatever but it's not bad being in love with yourself, in the procees you are giving people what they need, so is not an egoistic way of thinking

Author:  Sniper [ Thu Feb 17, 2011 8:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: becoming your own best friend

@ Kidd I'm not there yet....
but besides the steps I have wrote\mentioned (in my first post) is there another thing you did to get there?

@rant
firendships or love with others are importent however they are still based on interests and giving and getting value. There is no such a thing as 'true love' (for example) like we hear on songs or see in the movies :lol:

Author:  The Kidd!! [ Thu Feb 17, 2011 8:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: becoming your own best friend

Nope...that's about it.

Author:  peregrinus [ Fri Feb 18, 2011 1:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: becoming your own best friend

The Kidd!! wrote:
You basically become dependent on yourself for emotional support...

you are no longer needy, or attention/approval seeking because you yourself is all the approval you need.

There is a difference between liking/appreciating human interaction and NEEDING it...

I no longer NEED it because I've gotten used to being my own best friend. 8-)
THIS!!!

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