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 Post subject: What She needs ??
PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2011 4:03 am 
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Can someone please clarify this I have an idea but just confirm of what information I gathered on this blog so far.

What exactly does a woman need to feel attraction for a man now a days ???

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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2011 4:06 am 
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What blog are you referring to?

It varies per woman...but mostly confidence will open many a door. 8-)

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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2011 4:09 am 
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My fault I meant to say this forum :oops:

Yeah heard that one before how do we truly attain confidence there should be a step by step guide about this anyway thanks for replying so quickly kidd

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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2011 4:14 am 
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Best way to attain confidence is to be content with yourself...do whatever you have to do to get to that point. Set long range goals and stick to them...just being on the path will give you almost the same amount of confidence as if you had arrived.

Also, by being observant...knowing what to look for. If you see what you see, it is what it is...you can draw confidence knowing that you KNOW she likes what she sees.

It's like being nervous about taking a hard test...BUT, if you had an answer key to that test hidden under your leg, and you KNEW that all of those answers were CORRECT...you wouldn't be very nervous anymore, would you? 8-)

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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2011 11:34 am 
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Once again kidd you've helped me understand on what must be done anyway once again thanks for the speedy reply I'll let you know what's good?

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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
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To add...
TheDude wrote:
Subject: What She needs ??
The Kidd!! wrote:
Best way to attain confidence is to be content with yourself...do whatever you have to do to get to that point. Set long range goals and stick to them...just being on the path will give you almost the same amount of confidence as if you had arrived.
Would I be coming from the wrong place of mind to have a goal like, "Date 2 women simultaneously by so and so date and have them know about each other"?
The Kidd!! wrote:
Kind of...because if you are on the path and do what you're supposed to do, that will happen naturally anyway. 8-)
The Kidd!! wrote:
The nature of things is this:

-Goals that don't involve people, work like hell to make them happen.

-Goals that involve people, the less invested you are, the faster the goal will be met.

If this doesn't make any sense, don't worry...one day it will. 8-)


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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
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Its one of those things, when you NEED confidence, it is harder to come by. If I am talking to a woman that I am not that into, or have no emotional involvement with, I am more confident. If its a strange woman, and I am attracted to her, less so. For someone I really have that emotional involvement and attraction to, little confidence.


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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
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I would say a good starting place would be:

Be comfortable in your own skin.

Allow her the space to be herself.

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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
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Focus less on how she looks and more on how she looks at YOU. :ugeek:

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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
PostPosted: Tue Jan 07, 2014 9:51 pm 
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The Kidd!! wrote:
Focus less on how she looks and more on how she looks at YOU. :ugeek:
!!!!!!!!!!!! :geek:

By the way, Kidd, I understand now what you meant by choosing from women that choose you... :geek:
I got me a girl recently and it was the case.. She pretty much did all the work, I just let her do it, stepped out of my own way and sometimes helped her a little (Reciprocation)
It wasn't always clear if she wants me or not, but my experience and gut told me she does and it just has to takes some time.. And it did
Thanks for the lessons :geek:
Also thanks to other guys like Flow, Peregrinus, GBalls, Meraki, etc :ugeek:


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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
PostPosted: Tue Jan 07, 2014 9:57 pm 
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Well I'LL be... :o

[ img ]

Looks like miracles DO happen...way to go, fufe! :D

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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
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:lol:

And she's quite good looking too, used to model for makeup and hair - I was surprised she chose me from all the dudes that symp her ass.. She's the type that would be rather alone than with some symp (Fuck yea exactly what I like)
Also very strong mirror :geek:

Most importantly... Care to elaborate on the picture ? I don't get it :lol:


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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
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It's a phrase...'Well I'll be a monkey's uncle'. Means that you've witnessed something just about as unbelievable as the phrase. ;)

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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
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The Kidd!! wrote:
It's a phrase...'Well I'll be a monkey's uncle'. Means that you've witnessed something just about as unbelievable as the phrase. ;)
I see.. I'm going to put in my brain next to "Son of a motherless goose !" :D


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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
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So how long did it take for her to 'come around'? ;)

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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
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We know about each other for somewhere around 2 years, from otaku meetings and conventions.
On 21st Dec. We were at "before and after party" of one of those meetings at a friends' place, and we somehow started interacting - It started by me wanting her to straighten up my her (I look 75% more attractive with straight hair and I dont have the machine to do it at home, she had it at that time) and it took over from there, I sensed jocking the first night.
Then she called me, couple times, always with an excuse, and I felt it's ok to talk with her, so I did.. She paid for the phone. Once it was like and hour (felt like 15 minutes) and she insisted on seeing me, so I visited her (She lives in another city closeby, 30 minutes bus ride).
Then we wanted to celebrated New Year's Eve somwhere... A friend of mine got an idea to do it at my place, so we did, It was just 7 people + some guys... She reserved place in my bed and we spent both nights - No sex tho, she's still a virgin and I am in no hurry and I felt it's ok to wait.
Then, pretty much all her friends pressured her to "come around" - I somehow used one of her and mine female friends to talk her into it a little too (I used this a lot in the past.. I kind of know how to use female friends to my advantage, naturally) so when I arrived again, she said "Wait, one thing first" Kissed me so fast I was surprised :D and then grabbed my hand.. And we are pretty much oficially togetther since that point, this was on Monday.
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And man, she's much more into me that I am into her. I get messages from her friend how much she looks forward seeing me etc. It rocks

There was also one girl, who I know likes me, jocking hard, but when I mentioned places I would be, she said she won't or can't go there, so she missed her chances - at least for some time..


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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
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WHO ARE YOU?!? AND WHAT HAVE YOU DONE WITH FUFE!?!? :o

2 years isn't bad. I've had chicks take 3-5+ years...in some cases a marriage and a divorce later to finally figure it out. Didn't matter though as I kept myself more than adequately occupied with other women who figured it out earlier and my own ambition. No hurry...they aren't going anywhere. ;)

This seriously made my day, fufe. You are truly a shining example of progress in this here little forum. I salute you. :D

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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
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:cry:

Man, what have you done... I just cried 3 and half (manly) tears :cry:
:lol:

I am glad I finally did something else than make you mad ! :lol:

But there are still many demons to conquer or better, make friends with :ugeek:

I also suspect more broads jocken me, especially when I finish up my Ezreal costume ! :mrgreen:

By the way.. I know you accept paypal, but.. Do you accept payments in DogeCoins ? :mrgreen:


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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
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I very nearly spat my coffee all over the desk, pure surprise with a big smile.

Bravo.

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 Post subject: Re: What She needs ??
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peregrinus wrote:
I very nearly spat my coffee all over the desk, pure surprise with a big smile.

Bravo.
Shocked the shit outta me too :lol:

Miracles do happen 8-)

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