Short story:
last night I went out with a lady friend of mine.
In the past I wanted her and she was not intrested but last night I saw clear sighns of intrest by her, Yet she was too afraid to admit it.
I think it's also because my mindset changed (I have a better mindset now...)
Now that I think about it: I should have made a move and I didn't....
I admit I was stupid
Anyway, here is something that came up and I wanted to know your view on this:
While we drove back to her house (after the night out) I told her I was going to Thailand.
She said (not in these exact words - she used a nicer language
):
Her: When you are there with Thai women be carefull and don't lick their pussy.
Me: Don't worry I'll have safe sex....
.......
I'm not going to Thailand for the purpose of getting laid I'm going for a vacation. But If I have a chance to get laid- I will and I didn't feel like I need to hide it (esp. since in the past she didn't show she was intersted in me)
Do you think I should have said to her:
I'm not going to have sex over there at all, or is it good to be open about it?
I mean right now me and her are not dating maybe in the future we will, but since we are not right now, why should I hide it?