Naw, I'm not either. Email is the only trade route.
So lemme get this straight. If SHE was the original initiator in this escapade, and SHE had been jocking me, even with our bump in the road, if I then re-initiate is she just going to front? Because I feel that pull between letting it be and taking a small action - and that without a brief reach out then an advance cannot be made. Maybe this is where ball stealing can help.
Can the action that I took(in the OP, plus more important things coming up so that the opportunities she gave me to meet her went to the wayside) be so much of a turn off that all tension dissipates?
It happened to me more than once.