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How good are women at disguising interest?
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Author:  Altair [ Tue Jun 12, 2012 1:03 am ]
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I was at a bar last weekend. The past months I have been really starting to believe the front women have been putting on me.

This night for the first 80% was no exception. I was with some friends and we were hanging out shooting the shit. Was pretty indifferent, there was one girl that kept suspiciously turning up in my vincinity. But I waited too long and she ended up leaving.

There was another girl that was giving off subtle signs but turned me down when I started to talk to her and then the last situation there was another one who was kinda in the vicinity there was the tiniest flicker in her eyes but that was it. I wasn't that interested in her so I didn't give it a second thought.

About two minutes later she started talking to me, invited herself back to my place and blew off her friends.

So like I notice those really small subtle body language hints all the time. Like how likely is it that there are a lot of women that feel that level of attraction but just deny it?

Basic question but I'm interested to get your opinion
Author:  Resonance [ Tue Jun 12, 2012 2:26 am ]
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Morpheus wrote:
So like I notice those really small subtle body language hints all the time. Like how likely is it that there are a lot of women that feel that level of attraction but just deny it?
I know this is a question for The Kidd!! but in my opinion it sounds like they are trying to sort the programming in their head. I think a lot of low self esteem women would deny themselves this experience because of the many fucked up variables and excuses they make to convince themselves why or why not this situation should happen.

But this would also go back to environment as well that is a key factor. But that is just my analysis lets see what the big homie has to say. @Kidd didn't mean to intervene in this one but I wanted to see if I'm getting any better at this. ;)
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Tue Jun 12, 2012 5:57 pm ]
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About two minutes later she started talking to me, invited herself back to my place and blew off her friends.
So did you guys do the horizontal waltz? Did she blow YOU off as well at least? Or did you somehow manage to fuck that up? :geek:
Author:  peregrinus [ Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:38 pm ]
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Morpheus wrote:
there was another one who was kinda in the vicinity there was the tiniest flicker in her eyes
Morpheus wrote:
I wasn't that interested in her so I didn't give it a second thought.
Morpheus wrote:
About two minutes later she started talking to me, invited herself back to my place and blew off her friends.
Can you see what I see in what you wrote?
There is a good reason I seperated these lines, there is a big subtext here, in my view. What is it?
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Tue Jun 12, 2012 11:03 pm ]
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*enthusiastically raises his hand while slapping the desk with his other hand and stomping his feet* OOOH! OOOH! OOOOOOOOOOOOHHHH!!! I KNOW! I KNOW! :mrgreen:
Author:  Altair [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 1:16 am ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:
Quote:
About two minutes later she started talking to me, invited herself back to my place and blew off her friends.
So did you guys do the horizontal waltz? Did she blow YOU off as well at least? Or did you somehow manage to fuck that up? :geek:
Thanks for believing in me :lol: ...and yeah everything went smoothly 8-)

peregrinus..is it the obvious answer space?
Author:  Star_Above [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 1:49 am ]
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Morpheus wrote:
peregrinus..is it the obvious answer space?
Of course it is! The answer is always space, the only variable with it is how much to give depending on the circumstances.
Author:  Sai [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 4:59 am ]
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your level of indifference in regards to the last encounter was quite smooooooove ;)
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 6:04 am ]
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Prodigy wrote:
your level of indifference in regards to the last encounter was quite smooooooove ;)
DING DING DING DING DING DING DING DIIIIIIIIIING!!!!! :mrgreen:
Author:  Sai [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 9:38 pm ]
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to answer your question though Mr. Fishburne, I think that if the woman is interested enough, she WILL show signs and if you are adept enough, you WILL notice these signs, so they aren't really good at disguising their interest, if you can pick it up. they probably can fool the average Joe, but once you know what to look for it's like shootin fish in a barrel.
Author:  Star_Above [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 11:42 pm ]
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Prodigy wrote:
to answer your question though Mr. Fishburne, I think that if the woman is interested enough, she WILL show signs and if you are adept enough, you WILL notice these signs, so they aren't really good at disguising their interest, if you can pick it up. they probably can fool the average Joe, but once you know what to look for it's like shootin fish in a barrel.
The higher value you are in her eyes the more she won't be able to control herself.
Author:  Sai [ Thu Jun 14, 2012 12:44 am ]
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Star_Above wrote:
Prodigy wrote:
to answer your question though Mr. Fishburne, I think that if the woman is interested enough, she WILL show signs and if you are adept enough, you WILL notice these signs, so they aren't really good at disguising their interest, if you can pick it up. they probably can fool the average Joe, but once you know what to look for it's like shootin fish in a barrel.
The higher value you are in her eyes the more she won't be able to control herself.
trufe :ugeek: , even though some will still "ACT" snotty it will just be that, an act. as long as they are reacting TO YOU, you golden. that chick will start melting like wax around heat.

notice when Morpheus doesn't give this chick the bone she changes her actions and comes at him differently.
Author:  Altair [ Thu Jun 14, 2012 2:23 am ]
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Well, it was true indifference because I slept with her but didn't really care if it happened or not.

But that doesn't change the fact that I still act interested when around women that I do find attractive...I guess I just need to figure out how to translate that level of indifference to all interactions.
Author:  Star_Above [ Thu Jun 14, 2012 5:35 am ]
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Morpheus wrote:
I guess I just need to figure out how to translate that level of indifference to all interactions.
What did it for me was reading Dick Masterson's stuff (The male Esther Vilar) (No offense to Kidd, I learned a SHIT LOAD from him, but not everyone can teach you everything).

When you realize all women are fucking idiots you lose your nervousness around them and attachment to them no matter how hot they are. It's like if you're afraid of public speaking, you'd be pissing your pants to give a speech in front of a University, but not if all the students in the audience were mentally handicapped...because you'd look down on them and wouldn't give a fuck what they think about you, so your anxiety would be gone.

Now when I look at a woman all I notice are her faults and no matter how hot she is I'm a fuck'n rock. But that's just the path that worked for me, to each their own.
Author:  Dali [ Thu Jun 14, 2012 6:14 am ]
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Star_Above wrote:
Morpheus wrote:
I guess I just need to figure out how to translate that level of indifference to all interactions.
What did it for me was reading Dick Masterson's stuff (The male Esther Vilar) (No offense to Kidd, I learned a SHIT LOAD from him, but not everyone can teach you everything).

When you realize all women are fucking idiots you lose your nervousness around them and attachment to them no matter how hot they are. It's like if you're afraid of public speaking, you'd be pissing your pants to give a speech in front of a University, but not if all the students in the audience were mentally handicapped...because you'd look down on them and wouldn't give a fuck what they think about you, so your anxiety would be gone.

Now when I look at a woman all I notice are her faults and no matter how hot she is I'm a fuck'n rock. But that's just the path that worked for me, to each their own.
Very effective reframe, hipnosis, whatever you want to call it. Or Reality :shock:
Author:  Star_Above [ Thu Jun 14, 2012 7:32 am ]
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No need to reframe, it's universal reality :lol:
Author:  Rolan [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 8:05 pm ]
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Star_Above wrote:

Of course it is! The answer is always space, the only variable with it is how much to give depending on the circumstances.
Dang, that post is gold!

And this one!
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The higher value you are in her eyes the more she won't be able to control herself.
Which is why I don't get offended anymore if I get flaked on. When you see the reason they have flaked, it's so obvious and nothing to do with us. Not really. It doesn't actually mean they don't rate you, but rather that someone else had something they valued a little more - It could be proximity, a specific career, shared interest and the list goes on. I have begun to genuinely feel that should it happen, then regrets will belong to her and her alone.

For the question, I would say NOT REALLY. In general Women become obvious, predictable and routinary once you observe them more closely, more objectively. Just like any Animal who goes about their daily lives trying to get things. So, I think it's always obvious when they're uninterested, and vica versa, no matter how they choose to disguise it.
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