Edit by admin. This was a question for The Kidd....
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Hey Kidd I have a question about something ManniJa wrote
but not in regards to women...
so on this thread:
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... 197#p17197
ManniJa:
Lol! What I mean is that in every interaction one person is always perceived as higher value; the one that doesn't give a fuck about the interaction and thinks they're above the other person and the one trying to seek acceptance and validation because of that. If you're dealing with some big shot CEO you bet it's a battle with him, with the chick bagging your groceries, not so much.
I'll give an example and then ask my question....
Two guys are in an interaction:
A. these guys work at the same job and have the position...
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B. two friends are in an interaction
notice the examples I gave above are not about a worker dealing with a CEO or with someone you need to buy something from.
Now the question:
in the two examples I gave above: is one person going to try to seek acceptance and validation?
I ask because when I'm with my friends at work or my friends outside work: I don't feel as if I'm trying to seek acceptance and validation from them and I don't feel as if they are trying to seek acceptance and validation from Me.
If I met you for a drink I wouldn't try to seek acceptance and validation from you and you would not try to seek it from me....