Natural Freedom

Hey Kidd and peregrinus,

peregrinus wrote:
'men argue to make a point, women argue for the sake of argument'

sorry I don't get it, then again not everything that women do makes sense.
But could you guys elaborate?
what's the point of an argument if it not to make a point?

do women find that being in an argument is something fun or exciting?

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

It was Alchemist who said it, maybe you should ask him also

What is the common theme here... Women are emotional creatures.

Hrm I wonder what about an argument would spike their emotions

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

I see it in layers, the 1rst being the most superficial then gradually getting more subconscious:

1-They want to win the argument

2- They want to be right and end the argument feeling they have won (having the last word)

3-They get off on the emotional thrill of the argument, meanwhile she's challenging him to see where he stands.

Not sure if it's the right order and it might go deeper than that but that's how I see it.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

My take on it is that most women use arguing to vent their emotions. So the point is to express emotions, and not to make a point. Otherwise it wouldn't really be much of an argument, but mere statements of opinions.

Ok you all have great points. From this day forward if a bitch tries to make an argument and I believe I'm right, telling her my point and she keeps it up- I'm just going to walk away.

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

the way you react