Thanks for the encouragement guys, helps
fufe, you had success with the ladies (and some great stories you shared too)
what happened?
Well I'm still with the gf I was talking about and got eventually dumped. When she texted me she wants me back, I said ok but she had to innitiate contact for some time and I took my time to respond. We are going to a 3 or 4 days holiday together at my family's cottage soon.. Right now she's at home with tooth pain and antibiotics
Thing is I feel like I'm losing power and connection. I stopped innitiating contact again to help it, but I quess it won't be any use, since I don't have any clout. So I felt hopeless, because before these days I was dumped because of sympiness, neediness etc, these days it's because of no clout.
But seriously, how a girl who's studying and living with parents could really want from her bf to have all the shit.. Gets me mad - Is that wrong ?
But there's another thing, which makes me puzzled in many situations as to know what to do and say - Her ex. This ex is the type girl leaves and dates again and again perodically. When I got dumped she told be she's been with him that day but she doesn't want him anymore and wants me (told me this few days ago, after the breakup..) I know that's more likely to be BS, she sometimes texts with him etc. To me it looks like she is keeping him as a wild card if I tell her to fuck off and leave her - or it may be the other way, I don't know. Thing is I can't trust her, and most likely any woman.
Btw I figured out that what helps me to be indifferent, is saying "OK, How I would look at this situation a year later, with another girl ? Since I will have another girl if this one leaves me".