I've been waiting for this...
You are NOT SUPPOSED to be looking at hot chicks, waiting for them to check you out...you are supposed to be looking to see WHO IS checking you out!
Consider this: Maybe what you have been programmed by the media to be attracted to...isn't naturally what is attracted TO YOU.
See, we have all been raised by TV to like a certain type...generally speaking that type is slim, average height to tall, blonde, long flowing locks and busty. This is what society has dictated that we idealize....or any variation of those themes. This is why Black women always straighten their hair...because thanks to years and years of programming, NO ONE considers a Black womans natural hair attractive.
Now...consider THIS: What actually likes you MIGHT
NOT be what usually likes you. Not saying that only overweight women want you (I attract a lot of heavier women myself for some odd reason...and I'm not into that
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), but, like I said...stop looking at what YOU like...and start looking for what likes YOU. Make a list of like characteristics that most women that DO jock you share...do this long enough and you will see a pattern emerge...and chances are that your actual TYPE isn't what you THINK IT IS.
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ALL OF THIS!
Particularly these quotes:
You are NOT SUPPOSED to be looking at hot chicks, waiting for them to check you out...you are supposed to be looking to see WHO IS checking you out!
For those in doubt, there is a BIG difference.. Particularly in the vibe that the women pick up from you in the two actions.
Maybe what you have been programmed by the media to be attracted to...isn't naturally what is attracted TO YOU
stop looking at what YOU like...and start looking for what likes YOU.
In my view, what you like is irrelevant if they do not like you, hence what likes you is the first thing you should notice.
chances are that your actual TYPE isn't what you THINK IT IS
This is a big one.