peregrinus talked a lot about space, I think now I understand what he meant...
I'll try to explain it and peregrinus can confirm if I got it right.
what does it mean to give space while talking or being with a woman?
well, on one level it means that you should listen to her instead of being stuck in your head and always thinking what you are going to say next and etc...
Let her talk, listen and just let things be as they are (don't over analyze things or think too much). Just let things happen in the moment as they are...
but there is another level which is more subtle: the energy level
This is very hard to put into words but I'll try....
when we see a hot woman our energy is shifting on to her and kind of 'surrounding her'. What most PUAs are teaching is to act as if you don't care about her and stuff like that- but if on the energy level you are still focused on her all the time- she can feel it and it's needy.
So what I did in the last couple of days is I learned to play with my energy and focus.
for example: I would talk to a girl and my energy would shift to her and surround her. But then I took my energy back to into myself - giving her space. Then I shifted my enregy back to her and then brought it back to myself again. It's like I let her enjoy my energy and then gave her space (I did it with a few girls to 'test drive' it).
When women saw that I gave them space on an energy level they opened up more and felt much more at ease around me.
The key is that I didn't have to keep my energy inside all the time- I played with it: giving it and taking it back, giving it, taking it back again.
And two of the women I talked to were really hot and even gave me a boner. despite of that I still played with my energy. One of them was kind of cold so after a few words I just didn't give her my energy anymore, the other one was nice so I played with my energy back and forth with her (giving her space).
Well I hope that made sense cause it's hard to explain this...
and one more thing: when you start an interaction and the woman is cold or bitchy, don't give her your energy. Find someone else who deserves your energy
I can just let the energy out into the room...