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Author:  Sniper [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 9:04 pm ]
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ManniJa wrote:
Fuck ya dude, fantastic post! 95%'ers will blame all men for the actions of one and then take it out on every guy she dates, the 5%'ers will just blame that 1 guy and appreciate a real man when she finds one.
shit you know what I just thought?

that so many women who got hurt by a man will become men haters and will try to punish the next man they are with, while so many men out there- when they get hurt by a woman, they will still think women are angels and if they are 'Amorati' type they will also take the blame on themselves.

one guy: 'the bitch cheated on me, I'm done with bitches...'
Amorati: 'you just didn't love her enough man. Love the next woman even more...'



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Author:  The Kidd!! [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 9:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to spot a keeper!

Sniper wrote:
ManniJa wrote:
Fuck ya dude, fantastic post! 95%'ers will blame all men for the actions of one and then take it out on every guy she dates, the 5%'ers will just blame that 1 guy and appreciate a real man when she finds one.
shit you know what I just thought?

that so many women who got hurt by a man will become men haters and will try to punish the next man they are with, while so many men out there- when they get hurt by a woman, they will still think women are angels and if they are 'Amorati' type they will also take the blame on themselves.

one guy: 'the bitch cheated on me, I'm done with bitches...'
Amorati: 'you just didn't love her enough man. Love the next woman even more...'



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...and...this deals with keepers...how? :|

Author:  Sniper [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 9:36 pm ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:
...and...this deals with keepers...how? :|
just making a joke about Amorati...
Amorati are trying to be keepers for women (not the other way around...)

Author:  rant [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 11:39 pm ]
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it is posible that a keeper is a girl that is in a relationship with a beta, she is not happy but she don't broke with him becasue she don't want to hurt him, or there is another reason for this to happen?

Author:  Sniper [ Wed Mar 09, 2011 12:09 am ]
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rant wrote:
it is posible that a keeper is a girl that is in a relationship with a beta, she is not happy but she don't broke with him becasue she don't want to hurt him, or there is another reason for this to happen?
well, the way I see it is:
if a 'keeper' is with a beta male and stays with him - it must be because she is getting some kind of value from him Or maybe she got used to him already and doesn't want to start over...

A lot of people stay together from the force of habit and fear of starting over again,
And even 'keepers' are not perfect...

Author:  Altair [ Wed Mar 09, 2011 8:41 am ]
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rant wrote:
it is posible that a keeper is a girl that is in a relationship with a beta, she is not happy but she don't broke with him becasue she don't want to hurt him, or there is another reason for this to happen?
No not really. Natural selection favors those who look out for number one. Theres always some benefit

Author:  Star_Above [ Wed Mar 09, 2011 2:42 pm ]
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rant wrote:
it is posible that a keeper is a girl that is in a relationship with a beta, she is not happy but she don't broke with him becasue she don't want to hurt him, or there is another reason for this to happen?
Keepers have high self-esteem, therefore have pretty high standards (But again, not superficial standards) and will not just settle for any asshole, she will take her time and get to know him, probably not sleep with him right away, therefore if she met a beta it would be apparent pretty quickly so she would't be romantically intrrested, but because she is a nice girl she will be his friend and maybe help him out by setting him up with another chick, be his wingman...etc.

Remember, Beta's don't love themselves, if they did they'd be Alpha's, so if he doesn't love himself how can she love him?

Author:  The Kidd!! [ Wed Mar 09, 2011 3:21 pm ]
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ManniJa wrote:
rant wrote:
it is posible that a keeper is a girl that is in a relationship with a beta, she is not happy but she don't broke with him becasue she don't want to hurt him, or there is another reason for this to happen?
Keepers have high self-esteem, therefore have pretty high standards (But again, not superficial standards) and will not just settle for any asshole, she will take her time and get to know him, probably not sleep with him right away, therefore if she met a beta it would be apparent pretty quickly so she would't be romantically intrrested, but because she is a nice girl she will be his friend and maybe help him out by setting him up with another chick, be his wingman...etc.

Remember, Beta's don't love themselves, if they did they'd be Alpha's, so if he doesn't love himself how can she love him?
Actually this fits my keeper quite well...she wouldn't let me beat for almost 3 weeks...and for her that was record time. The same night we exchanged numbers, this beta guy that I was acquainted with that had come to that particular get together with her attempted to get her number on the way home (and hate on me as well). Actually, they had known each each for quite a awhile through a mutual friend, but he wasn't spurned to move until I did within the 2 hours I had met her. :lol:

He told her shit like how I'm the wrong kind of guy for her and that I will hurt her...and she had none of it! LMAO! She is still friendly with him when she sees him, and he is a 'nice guy', but no action. :lol:

Author:  peregrinus [ Wed Mar 09, 2011 8:08 pm ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:
He told her shit like how I'm the wrong kind of guy for her and that I will hurt her...
I LOVE guys who do that.

It is more likely to push her towards you than anyway from you.

Shooting himself in the foot and showing his insecurities to her.

He feels he has to put you down to make himself look better, hence he already showed her that you are the better option.

Sweet :)

Author:  The Kidd!! [ Wed Mar 09, 2011 8:12 pm ]
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peregrinus wrote:
The Kidd!! wrote:
He told her shit like how I'm the wrong kind of guy for her and that I will hurt her...
I LOVE guys who do that.

It is more likely to push her towards you than anyway from you.

Shooting himself in the foot and showing his insecurities to her.

He feels he has to put you down to make himself look better, hence he already showed her that you are the better option.

Sweet :)
Haha I'm telling you! The more you're aware of, the less work you actually have to do to get much more consistent results...it's fucking beautiful! :D

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