I've noticed that the more I love and accept myself, the more people love and accept me as well. Just confirmation that what's going on outside of me is a reflection of what's going on inside.

Excellent.

- She will not compete with you nor will she complete you...she will COMPLEMENT you. She knows how to cater to your ego and make you look even better when you are in public...she shares and enhances your spotlight, whereas most chicks want to steal the spotlight FROM you.

She will not compete with you nor will she complete you...she will COMPLEMENT you. She knows how to cater to your ego and make you look even better when you are in public...she shares and enhances your spotlight, whereas most chicks want to steal the spotlight FROM you.

one thing that always bothered me is when a woman doesn't give you space. A lot of women once they get into a relationship with a man they 'strangle him' (tell the man not to go out with his friends, don't let him enjoy his Hobbies, want 24 hours attention and etc...)

My take on this is:

HE FAILED THE TEST!

He failed to set proper boundaries, that is the ONLY reason she was able to 'strangle him'. If he had been able to set proper boundaries then it would not have happened.

The man creates the space, not the woman.. That also includes the space for HIMSELF!

The man creates the space, not the woman.. That also includes the space for HIMSELF!

you are right however a lot of women are obsessive and control freaks- but that is a different story and I (and I'm sure no one else here) wants to be with a woman like that...

In that case, SHE FAILED THE TEST!

If he sets the boundaries and sticks to them himself and she constantly tries to overrule them or go around them - she has failed HIS test.

That is my view of the situation.

Great shit here guys, good responses!

Another thing, generally if she's fucked over 7 dudes then she's not an x-factor...keepers are more relationshipy and don't go around every weekend inhaling random cock.

That's a pretty comprehensive list, ManniJa...hmmmm...

- A keeper will have a lot of things in common and share a lot of common interests.

- As soon as you meet her, you will feel comfortable not nervous...regardless of how attractive you think she is.

I hear you Mannija, Women will always lie about the amount of Partners they have.

Not sure how accurate it is, but I heard that if you ask a woman how many sexual partners she's had.. multiply the number she gives you by 3 and you'll have a more accurate count. And with men, divide the number by 3.

NOTE: For you to have her attracted to you it's not about "Value Heiarchy" (Money, status, what can you do for me, etc...) Your job is to get to a place where you love yourself 100% and just "Be yourself" (As I've said 1000 times)
She will "love you for you", but you have to love yourself first for that to happen.

Also, keepers have usually gone through some shit (i.e. a shitty relationship or two) already before you get to them. The difference between a keeper and most chicks though is where most chicks would allow themselves to become ruined by such adversity, the keeper is secure enough in herself to not let it change her a WHOLE lot...but to better recognize what she actually wants and needs to get out of a relationship (and in a man), which of course drives her appreciation of a real alpha male through the ROOF.