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one person has to want the other one more, or not....
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Author:  Sniper [ Sun Feb 27, 2011 3:59 pm ]
Post subject:  one person has to want the other one more, or not....
hey guys,
so today I have been thinking about this. There is a talk about this topic in the community and we also mentioned it here- I just don't remember where...

It is said that in a relationship if one wants or loves the other one more - the guy or girl who want or love less have the power in the relationship....

So my 2 question are:

1. If a guy wants or loves a girl just a bit more than she loves or wants him. Is he losing his power in the relationship?

2. Can it be 50\50?*
*the girl and the guy want and love each other the same....
if so, how often does that really happen?
Author:  rant [ Sun Feb 27, 2011 7:59 pm ]
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that thing you call love in this case is needing ness, the one that need more the other lose
Author:  freespirit422 [ Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: one person has to want the other one more, or not....
Sniper, I thought about this for a while too. The whole giving power away thing. It's just one of those things you have to experience and find out for yourself I guess. Love is a complicated thing to begin with, I think love gets confused for neediness a lot.

In the end it's about finding someone who you can be in a relationship that is as authentic as you and doesn't play games. I think some guys tend to get attached to those feelings they get when they are around a girlfriend and don't actually love them. They just love the feelings which leads to neediness.

But you are already well aware of that. Honestly I don't have a clue what love actually is because society tried to package it into a neat little box, filled with lies. So I guess the best advice I could give you is to just use what you have learned and find out the answers for yourself.
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Mon Feb 28, 2011 2:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: one person has to want the other one more, or not....
Sniper wrote:
hey guys,
so today I have been thinking about this. There is a talk about this topic in the community and we also mentioned it here- I just don't remember where...

It is said that in a relationship if one wants or loves the other one more - the guy or girl who want or love less have the power in the relationship....

So my 2 question are:

1. If a guy wants or loves a girl just a bit more than she loves or wants him. Is he losing his power in the relationship?

2. Can it be 50\50?*
*the girl and the guy want and love each other the same....
if so, how often does that really happen?
1) Yes

2) No...someone must always lead...so best case scenario is you'll have 49%-51%...and the couple is so in sync with each others strengths and weaknesses that the 'lead' changes so often and frequently that it appears to look like it's 50-50. 8-)
Author:  Sniper [ Mon Feb 28, 2011 6:40 am ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:
1) Yes

2) No...someone must always lead...so best case scenario is you'll have 49%-51%...and the couple is so in sync with each others strengths and weaknesses that the 'lead' changes so often and frequently that it appears to look like it's 50-50. 8-)
I see thank you :geek:

@freespirit422
the concept of 'love' is just value, we talked about it on other threads

@rant
we all get a little 'needy' once in a while, we are not perfect....
we might not be needy like AFC's and we can always work more and more on removing the neediness but once in a while we might bump into neediness....
that's what I think but feel free to prove me wrong
Author:  rant [ Mon Feb 28, 2011 7:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: one person has to want the other one more, or not....
Sniper wrote:
@rant
we all get a little 'needy' once in a while, we are not perfect....
we might not be needy like AFC's and we can always work more and more on removing the neediness but once in a while we might bump into neediness....
that's what I think but feel free to prove me wrong
of course, i just change love for needingness, what is AFC's?
Author:  Sniper [ Mon Feb 28, 2011 9:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: one person has to want the other one more, or not....
rant wrote:
of course, i just change love for needingness, what is AFC's?
AFC is a term in the community for a loser with women. You can change that to Amorati :mrgreen:
Author:  Alchemist [ Mon Feb 28, 2011 9:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: one person has to want the other one more, or not....
Sniper wrote:
rant wrote:
of course, i just change love for needingness, what is AFC's?
AFC is a term in the community for a loser with women. You can change that to Amorati :mrgreen:
:mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
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