Treat them accordingly.
Every situation is different.
I dislike the word.. However, think, in what way did she 'flake'?
That will tell you her motivations.
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Also, I tend to do things that do not depend on the other person being present, especially in the early stages with a new person. So if they were not to turn up, all well and good. Which ironically means they are more likely to turn up (what a surprise).
_________________ In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.
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