It just occurred to me today, as a broad who is heavily interested finally asked the inevitable question which is 'What do I do?', and I realised that this is a question a chooser asks, and a potential chosen answers.

Because it was via email I haven't replied yet, though I'm thinking of answering honestly as a test and say what it is I do - nothing.

I have zero clout at the moment, even though I live very comfortably materially for now.

When YOU choose...you LOSE.

Could it be that she is not after the answer to the question you see?
If so, what is it she is really asking?

Why would you not reply honestly?

Give me one good reason?

You may in your mind.

Are you sure that she sees it the same way?

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The question about "what do you do" reflects her
financial intelligence as well.

You can have a direction if you´re currently at some
perceived zero. Set some pertinent goals and
educate yourself + take action.

When YOU choose...you LOSE.

I still don't understand this

I still don't understand this

You could be chasin but your time would be wastin....

I sell cars...you want to buy a car. You CHOOSE the car you want to purchase...which means you have to ACCEPT MY TERMS OF SALE.

So...who has the upper hand? The chooser?...or the choosie?

...and for the record, that you didn't get my simple, straightforward, common sensical answer is quite disheartening.

Disheartening for whom

Don't be on my account - with all due respect the explanation was more beneficial to this student at this time. If that makes me slow, so be it.

I think what I find hard to get my head around is I always thought the buyer held power, because the seller is dependant on buyers coming into their yard, but this could cause quite the paradigm shift.

Kidd!! is speaking in Matrix terms, of course we are the exception.

Kidd!! is speaking in Matrix terms, of course we are the exception.

When YOU choose...you LOSE.

The pimp is supposed to put himself in the position to be discovered by the ho or square broad. This position is mental as well as gographical.

Not only does the pimp circulate wherever women happen to be, but while making such forays he is continually conscious of his identity and image as a pimp. He reasons that he will attract the women he seeks by looking and acting like what he is, so that the women do the choosing, not him.”

From a mack’s point o view: Get ya mind right…

Go to to the places where the QUALITY women are, and one may choose you. Women are easier to deal with when they choose you, it cuts out alot of games. And when they choose they choose hard, ya dig

A pimp let’s the female choose. This way he retains the power. In the pua game the dude is choosing and chasing. She keeps the power.