I dunno man, that 'loving women' and expressing emotions openly sounds kinda pirate boat, they can already tell if you're interested from your vibe so why verbalise it?.
That's where the huge difference is. It's about knowing what you want and knowing what your feeling in the moment but not pursuing. It's about being a cool ass mother fucker that understands the difference between trying to get a woman and coming from a place of complete confidence and allowing to let it happen. It's taking control without trying to take control of anything. It's the level that you cannot learn from the matrix. It doesn't even have to be about verbalizing anything. It's when it all comes together. The observing, the confirmations, the inner work, it's really just know who the fuck you are and owning that shit.
Nice.
I know some guys who get stuck in an idea of "show absolutely nothing, do absolutely nothing, ever" - and even have clear interest from women, but then there's no bridge. Nothing happens because how can it- Where is the step in the middle- how do you even end up in a room together alone?
It is your nature to be attracted to women and nature for you two to get together. When its time you do what you know to do in your gut. It's not about reaching some state of total no interest. You are 100% indifferent about being a professional cricket player- you don't talk about not caring about it or trying not to care about it. Women are supposed to be something you enjoy as a small part of a much bigger life that you live on your own terms. If you are making them a big obstacle to overcome, living by rules etc you become an obsessive non pursuer instead of possessive pursuer. Do you give as much energy re: food you enjoy and like to eat sometimes?
I know this might not apply to anyone here but hey