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Author:  caliboy85 [ Tue Oct 30, 2012 9:33 pm ]
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I was wondering what you guys think of the idea of seeing a female escort while i am still learning the stuff here.I am going to be honest, i have been out of a relationship for about 3.5 months and i am always horny and find it very difficult to control.
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Tue Oct 30, 2012 9:50 pm ]
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Author:  caliboy85 [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 1:58 am ]
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Yeah man i'm totally serious man.I just turned 27 years old and have only been with one woman in my life and that was my last and only gf(separated 3 months ago).I feel that in order to be indifferent i have to sleep with woman until i get tired of it which alot of guys on her have.It's easier to have a carefree and indifferent mentality when you have already experienced it to the point where its no longer a big deal for you.I haven't reached that point yet.
Author:  Altair [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 2:14 am ]
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If you do your gonna realize what a waste of time and money it is real quick :|

I haven't been with a shitload of women either, they're kinda a big waste of time. You have more important shit than pussy to worry about.
Author:  Rockefeller [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 2:25 am ]
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What you want to do is the opposite of what everyone is encouraging on this site. Tricking isn't going to make you better or help you out in any way, that's just going to make you a trick. I don't know what else to say...
Author:  Resonance [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 3:16 am ]
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Shit ain't a good look son you can do it if you want, but all you will be doing is telling your subconscious that a bitch is responsible for your happiness and that will develop neediness.

You should be focusing on being your own best friend and derive indifference from that learn to just be content with yourself if you can't do that I would start working on some things that can help you get there so you can be more happy with yourself trust me dude an 1/2 hour or more in a warm wet hole is temporary gratification. Nothing would have a better feeling than being satisfied with a lifestyle that you chose by design instead of by accident.

Think of better ways of spending that money like skyping with Kidd!! so he can get your head screwed on straight that will really jump start your journey.
Author:  Dali [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 3:32 am ]
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This will sink you more deeply in the matrix, as for the several reasons stated above. One of them already mentioned, and very obvious is deriving gratification and happiness from external sources, in this case woman.

A pimp never falls in love.

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Author:  peregrinus [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 7:57 am ]
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I Say, Go do it..

Then come back here and report what a difference it made.
Author:  StephenP [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 4:18 pm ]
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:roll: get shitloads of women -/- become indifferent :roll:

8-) become indifferent --> get shitloads of women 8-)
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 4:26 pm ]
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StephenP wrote:
:roll: get shitloads of women -/- become indifferent :roll:

8-) become indifferent --> get shitloads of women 8-)
Oh MAN...this is so brilliantly simple and put so succinctly...this is SO golden. 8-)
Author:  panoramix [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 4:29 pm ]
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I would cut my dick and live on a desert island rather than buy some sex.

What I have learned from another 'lady' is that: pussy in real life => pussy in bed
Author:  Meraki [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 8:30 am ]
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I'm gonna quote something the Kidd told me (not that long ago):
The Kidd!! wrote:
Too damn needy...this mindset is new to you...baby steps, buddy. Time to learn some patience.
Since that is probably not a satisfying answer to you, here's some more practical steps for you to take:

1) Go to the gym.

2) Lift weights.

3) Keep lifting weights until you're wrecked and can't lift any more weights.

4) Get on a treadmill/stationary bike or something like that and push it until you're so tired you can't possibly think about having sex with a hooker.

5) Repeat as needed.
Author:  Dali [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 12:58 pm ]
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Meraki wrote:
I'm gonna quote something the Kidd told me (not that long ago):
The Kidd!! wrote:
Too damn needy...this mindset is new to you...baby steps, buddy. Time to learn some patience.
Since that is probably not a satisfying answer to you, here's some more practical steps for you to take:

1) Go to the gym.

2) Lift weights.

3) Keep lifting weights until you're wrecked and can't lift any more weights.

4) Get on a treadmill/stationary bike or something like that and push it until you're so tired you can't possibly think about having sex with a hooker.

5) Repeat as needed.
Deplete your testosterone FOR YOU madafaka!
Author:  Meraki [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 7:48 pm ]
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Dali wrote:
Deplete your testosterone FOR YOU madafaka!
^ This, but also:

Focus on yourself not on others.

Spend money on yourself (gym membership) not on others (hooker).

Make yourself stronger (physically, but also mentally), then you won't feel any need to see a hooker.
Author:  caliboy85 [ Sun Nov 04, 2012 7:40 pm ]
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I don't see how lifting weights and exercise(from experience) will help me when all it does is make me even hornier.Guys, lets be real with this idea of having your shit together and being zen before attracting women,not needing women etc. Lately i have been asking myself as recommend here, why do i need these woman for sex?Is it because i am lonely?No..Its just purely biological desire that's been going on for thousands of years..And by the way i am an atheist/hedonist and look at these things from a scientific point of view.When i get up in the morning i am hard and lately it's been going on throughout the day.I feel like jumping on a women but i know i can't do that.It has nothing to do with ego or not wanting, i am pretty sure it is just male hormones.I don't think any kind of distraction or diversion will help with that since it is just sexual appetite ingrained in our DNA.So what am i left with?I am not into spirituality/loa or any of that stuff. Men have been fucking women for thousands of years without spirituality/buddhism/daoism or any of that stuff.I just don't know that for the most part pua community is bullshit with the exception of some of the direct game advice.
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sun Nov 04, 2012 7:52 pm ]
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All we're saying is...trying to adopt this mindset while simultaneously reinforcing the idea that pussy is a valuable commodity that is okay to pay for is counterintuitive. :geek:

I've never solicited a prostitute...and I was young and horny too once. I just channeled that energy and focus into getting better at understanding women so that I could fuck them on MY terms...that's all.

I said it once before and I'll say it again...FOCUS ON OLDER WOMEN WHEN YOU'RE YOUNGER. :ugeek:

Good luck :geek:
Author:  GoldenBoy [ Sun Nov 04, 2012 8:07 pm ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:
All we're saying is...trying to adopt this mindset while simultaneously reinforcing the idea that pussy is a valuable commodity that is okay to pay for is counterintuitive. :geek:

I've never solicited a prostitute...and I was young and horny too once. I just channeled that energy and focus into getting better at understanding women so that I could fuck them on MY terms...that's all.

I said it once before and I'll say it again...FOCUS ON OLDER WOMEN WHEN YOU'RE YOUNGER. :ugeek:

Good luck :geek:
+1

Repeat this truth caliboy : If pussy has value, then my dick is priceless.

Just a matter of patience and 'good managing' ...
Author:  rant [ Sun Nov 04, 2012 10:29 pm ]
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caliboy85 wrote:
I feel like jumping on a women but i know i can't do that .
"do or not do there is not try" it is the resistance to do or not do those things that make the object(women)more desirable
Author:  Alchemist [ Sun Nov 04, 2012 11:46 pm ]
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Hands are better than prostitutes.
Author:  peregrinus [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 12:47 am ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:
I said it once before and I'll say it again...FOCUS ON OLDER WOMEN WHEN YOU'RE YOUNGER. :ugeek:
I second this, COMPLETELY AND UTTERLY!!!

To Bang this home, I really really agree with the above comment. Really really.

Did I mention how much I agree with that comment? No..

oh well, here goes, I agree with it.
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