Women look at the symptoms, like a doctor would...
As they cannot plainly see the cold inside you, so they look at the symptoms, the visible signs, the external indicators that you do in fact have...
A damn nasty cold..
would you say it is something swallow or it is a pattern of the mind to feel safe? becasue i feel that the fear is to connect with another person in a deep way, so people crave for money because they think it will make things easier because they can relax and lie(ego) in the company of strangers and say i have this done that then try to make the conection they wanted in the first place.