Hey guys,
This is the same as The Kidd's Marquee Value Theory (in different words) so I'm putting it here more for the new guys who are browsing this forum....
for the new guys: if you haven't read The Kidd's articles you should, if you need another angel on 'Marquee Value Theory' here goes....
The Kidd's 'Marquee Value Theory' covers the mentality of most women and this article is only about the mentality of party girls but you will see the similarities
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Party chick, the Sociological and Anthropological Perspective by Cameron Teone
Most “Party Girls” are in their 20s, and they happen to be more attractive than average. The age range can vary from 18 to 30, a being a party girl is not a matter of age, but rather it’s mindset. This is of the utmost importance.
The party-chick possesses physical attributes that she trades as social currency. Most guys will wilt and bend when faced with the promise of sex. More than anything, the party-chick has learned to dangle sex like a carrot in front of the old donkey. Keep in mind that the party chick comes in various flavors of socio-economic class. There can be clichéd “Trailer Trash” to the socialite. So you could be talking about Britney Spears or Paris Hilton,
It’s not a one sided affair, however. There are hordes of men waiting out there to trade monetary currency to hang with party girls. These are the guys who will spend lots of money buying the girls drinks, the ones with the limo waiting outside of the club, and bottle service inside the club, all part of the package deal to get back to the house to snort some blow.
Contrary to popular belief, these guys are not losers who just don’t have game. This, for better or worse, is their Game. Party girls want to have fun and have a free ride. These guys provide it and receive sex as compensation. Well, there are a lot of steps in between, but that’s what’s basically occurring here.
What’s in it for them? They want sex with thin girls in their 20s. The men’s age range could very from 20s to 50s. It doesn’t matter. They dynamic does not change. What type of guys are these? These are guys who have lots of money. Money provides access to hottest nightclubs (remember the need to be seen socially, stimulus junkies), bottle service, lots of free flowing alcohol, and cocaine [amongst other hardcore drugs).
The Money-man provides these in return for the party chick's company and sex.
Well, it's all fun and games until father time and mother nature start exerting their will.
Suddenly, a funny thing happens on the way to the big three zero. When the Party chick hits the age of 30 She is no longer in demand by the type of guys who entertain, wine and dine party chicks.
The men spending lots of cash do so because they desire girls in their early 20s...
Once the party-chick turns roughly 30 years old, she no longer possesses that social currency. The men spending 1000s of dollars on a nightly basis are not looking to catch 30 plus year old women. They want the young girls, and there is a new crop of 20 somethings has been harvested, a new generation has surfaced. They're about to be introduced to the wilderness and the old generation is irrelevant.
Suddenly, the 30 year old party chick is put out to pasture. Past her shelf life, she has gone the way of the audio-cassette tape, obsolete and irrelevant. The majority of the time, party chicks are not career women or well educated. They have been too busy partying (This is not always the case, just the majority of the time).
Having no real education, trade, or career, the party chick turns into a state of semi-panic. She must now ponder her future and how she will maintain her lifestyle, or even provide a decent standard of shelter, food, and such. How will she do this? It's scrambling time for the party chick. Having spent the bulk of their 20s partying, they usually don't have much of an education, and since snorting coke and shopping do not come across that impressive on a resume, they don't have much of a career track either...
She must turn to a provider to provide this. Her looks are fading quickly and remember she only has her physical appearance as the only social currency for trade. Things are going to get dim unless she cashes in what currency she has left.
She finds that provider. The provider is also referred to as husband and he is legally bound to provide for the party chick.... There is no carfax service to for party chicks. The husband to be has no idea of what kind of unsavory character she has been spending time with, or if her nostrils are padded with a snowflake trail of cocaine.
Unfortunately, this guys is the biggest chump in his habitat. He has bought a thrashed vehicle that was no good to begin with. The writing is on the wall. This man is going to be one miserable son of a bitch.
Well, what if she change her ways?
What if she saw the light? What if she is now a person with goals and ambitions, perhaps even someone who wants to raise a good family?
That’s the big question, isn’t? Is the person reformed? Actually, the real variable here is cause of the reform:
Did the person change her/his ways because
- She experienced some sort of an epiphany? Perhaps she had a paradigm shift?
Or
- Did the person change because her circumstances forced her to? (But she really didn’t want to…)
If it’s the latter, you’re screwed.... Don’t become like that guy!
Such is the case with one particular party girl I’ve known for years....As a teenager, I observed her to be the queen of her social circle. In demand, sought after, and taken care of, she had no worries. We used to watch her leave the house with no money in her pocket...
The story takes a turn as you might imagine. You watch them go from in demand to obsolete, out-dated , put out to pasture, marry a guy and divorce is sure to follow 5 years later. That particular script, I’ve seen numerous times.
Man, I can drag you by the hand to the South Bay tonight and show you 39-year old party-chicks. They got married, had kids, got divorced (not necessary in the sequence), and here they are still seeking chasing the dragon. You know what they did last weekend? Got drunk, went to some clubs, talked about nothing. Want to guess what they’re doing next weekend?
If you’re someone who is seeking a long term relationship, a companion, or wife, you probably ought to stay clear from party girls. That seems like common sense, but then, it’s not always that simple. She could be reformed because she is husband shopping and that makes thing a bit more complicated. We’re back to the question I asked earlier. Was the reform a result of some sort of maturity, mental/spiritual growth, or was it the circumstance that forced her hand? If you can answer that, you know the answer to your question.
Now, if you read The Kidd's article and have been here on the forum for a while....you already know that most party girls, gold diggers or even 'regular girls' don't really have an epiphany or a paradigm shift. Most of them are just 'husband shopping' and while in their 20's they were shooting down good men (because they thought they will be attractive forever) now they see that their market value is no longer high so they must hurry up and catch a provider before it's too late.Most “Party Girls” are in their 20s, and they happen to be more attractive than average. The age range can vary from 18 to 30, a being a party girl is not a matter of age, but rather it’s mindset. This is of the utmost importance.
The party-chick possesses physical attributes that she trades as social currency. Most guys will wilt and bend when faced with the promise of sex. More than anything, the party-chick has learned to dangle sex like a carrot in front of the old donkey. Keep in mind that the party chick comes in various flavors of socio-economic class. There can be clichéd “Trailer Trash” to the socialite. So you could be talking about Britney Spears or Paris Hilton,
It’s not a one sided affair, however. There are hordes of men waiting out there to trade monetary currency to hang with party girls. These are the guys who will spend lots of money buying the girls drinks, the ones with the limo waiting outside of the club, and bottle service inside the club, all part of the package deal to get back to the house to snort some blow.
Contrary to popular belief, these guys are not losers who just don’t have game. This, for better or worse, is their Game. Party girls want to have fun and have a free ride. These guys provide it and receive sex as compensation. Well, there are a lot of steps in between, but that’s what’s basically occurring here.
What’s in it for them? They want sex with thin girls in their 20s. The men’s age range could very from 20s to 50s. It doesn’t matter. They dynamic does not change. What type of guys are these? These are guys who have lots of money. Money provides access to hottest nightclubs (remember the need to be seen socially, stimulus junkies), bottle service, lots of free flowing alcohol, and cocaine [amongst other hardcore drugs).
The Money-man provides these in return for the party chick's company and sex.
Well, it's all fun and games until father time and mother nature start exerting their will.
Suddenly, a funny thing happens on the way to the big three zero. When the Party chick hits the age of 30 She is no longer in demand by the type of guys who entertain, wine and dine party chicks.
The men spending lots of cash do so because they desire girls in their early 20s...
Once the party-chick turns roughly 30 years old, she no longer possesses that social currency. The men spending 1000s of dollars on a nightly basis are not looking to catch 30 plus year old women. They want the young girls, and there is a new crop of 20 somethings has been harvested, a new generation has surfaced. They're about to be introduced to the wilderness and the old generation is irrelevant.
Suddenly, the 30 year old party chick is put out to pasture. Past her shelf life, she has gone the way of the audio-cassette tape, obsolete and irrelevant. The majority of the time, party chicks are not career women or well educated. They have been too busy partying (This is not always the case, just the majority of the time).
Having no real education, trade, or career, the party chick turns into a state of semi-panic. She must now ponder her future and how she will maintain her lifestyle, or even provide a decent standard of shelter, food, and such. How will she do this? It's scrambling time for the party chick. Having spent the bulk of their 20s partying, they usually don't have much of an education, and since snorting coke and shopping do not come across that impressive on a resume, they don't have much of a career track either...
She must turn to a provider to provide this. Her looks are fading quickly and remember she only has her physical appearance as the only social currency for trade. Things are going to get dim unless she cashes in what currency she has left.
She finds that provider. The provider is also referred to as husband and he is legally bound to provide for the party chick.... There is no carfax service to for party chicks. The husband to be has no idea of what kind of unsavory character she has been spending time with, or if her nostrils are padded with a snowflake trail of cocaine.
Unfortunately, this guys is the biggest chump in his habitat. He has bought a thrashed vehicle that was no good to begin with. The writing is on the wall. This man is going to be one miserable son of a bitch.
Well, what if she change her ways?
What if she saw the light? What if she is now a person with goals and ambitions, perhaps even someone who wants to raise a good family?
That’s the big question, isn’t? Is the person reformed? Actually, the real variable here is cause of the reform:
Did the person change her/his ways because
- She experienced some sort of an epiphany? Perhaps she had a paradigm shift?
Or
- Did the person change because her circumstances forced her to? (But she really didn’t want to…)
If it’s the latter, you’re screwed.... Don’t become like that guy!
Such is the case with one particular party girl I’ve known for years....As a teenager, I observed her to be the queen of her social circle. In demand, sought after, and taken care of, she had no worries. We used to watch her leave the house with no money in her pocket...
The story takes a turn as you might imagine. You watch them go from in demand to obsolete, out-dated , put out to pasture, marry a guy and divorce is sure to follow 5 years later. That particular script, I’ve seen numerous times.
Man, I can drag you by the hand to the South Bay tonight and show you 39-year old party-chicks. They got married, had kids, got divorced (not necessary in the sequence), and here they are still seeking chasing the dragon. You know what they did last weekend? Got drunk, went to some clubs, talked about nothing. Want to guess what they’re doing next weekend?
If you’re someone who is seeking a long term relationship, a companion, or wife, you probably ought to stay clear from party girls. That seems like common sense, but then, it’s not always that simple. She could be reformed because she is husband shopping and that makes thing a bit more complicated. We’re back to the question I asked earlier. Was the reform a result of some sort of maturity, mental/spiritual growth, or was it the circumstance that forced her hand? If you can answer that, you know the answer to your question.
I'm not saying that 'epiphany or a paradigm shift' can't happen at all but it's rare...Usually it's an act to catch a husband because they know they run out of options.
Also, even if a girl had a real epiphany or a paradigm shift while she turned 30- that doesn't mean that she won't go back to her old ways, so be careful.
*All credit goes to The Kidd and Grinus for helping me see those things...*
for the full article by Cameron Teone:
http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/20 ... ks-part-3/
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