Hey guys,
so I took the advise that The Kidd gave me and while I was doing my observations in the last couple days, I noticed that I tend to get more attention from dark skin women while Blond women don't seem to show much interest in me (most of the time..). But the thing is:
I'm not attracted to Blonds or light skin women anyway- the reason it used to bother me in the past was that I was influenced by the social matrix and because the social matix usually promotes light skin women and Blonds - I thought that since these kind of women don't show much intrest in me- that means that I'm not attractive.
So now that I know where it came from and the fact that I'm not really attracted to light skin women and Blonds anyway: I can just not give a shit
Now regarding the experiment:
I read an artical which was not about women but it did touch the women subject as well. it said something like:
'people don’t care that much what you are doing. Even if you get rejected by a girl and people see it – they will very soon forget about it and go back and think about their own problems and dramas in life. So no one really cares or remembers what you are doing'
we are always worried about what people think and we forget that people spend most of their time and energy thinking about their own life, And when it comes to strangers who don't really know you- they don't think about you..
So today I was at the university for two hours - I had to copy some material. I decided to make an experiment: I went to get some coffee, there were people near the cafeteria that time (outside the cafeteria at the yard). I decided I'm going to approach a girl, say something really stupid and then she would blow me off, other people will see And I won't give a shit (at least try not to give a shit...).
So I approached a good looking girl, I looked at her and said:
can I tell you something?
Her: Sure
Me: I really like your ass.
(now I'm waiting for her to blow me off and everyone is watching....)
But instead: she was embarrassed at first But then smiled and said: Thank you
Me (confused
): continued to talk to her and then we had coffee together.while we were talking I was curious so I told her that this is the most stupid line and how I was surprised by her response. She said that most guys are too afraid to talk to her and the guys that do- usually come up with the same boring lines. So hearing something different was kind of refreshing for her. And she also told me that she noticed I was not nervous when I talked to her and that's what got her curious about me.
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